How can I talk to women in bars?

Question

Getting work as a model I have this new self confidence but the very thought of strikning up conversation with a stranger in a bar makes me panic and act weird. I have no idea how to go about and I'm scared that as soon as I try anything i'm just going to start rambling and stuttering. Also where in London is a good place for this?

Answer 1

Chill. Ask a lot of questions about them? Share things about yourself. Be yourself. You have the looks now you just need to relax a bit and be normal.

Answer 2

There’s some good news and some bad news for you. Let’s start with the good news: Women go to bars to meet men. Women seek our approval and attention. Women want to be noticed and desired, so don’t be shy. In fact, women want you to be in control and expect you to initiate a conversation. After all, in our society women are raised that way. They want to be picked-up!

The bad news is that the key to success is to have “Zen”. To be successful on a predictable and consistent basis, you need to know exactly what you’re going to do. A lot of lame dating books say you just need to be cocky and funny. But they don’t tell you exactly how. How exactly do you go about being cocky without being arrogant? How do you build self-confidence in the first place? How do you go about being funny?

Let’s start with the basics first. There 4-stages to every pick-up:
Stage 1 – The initial approach
Stage 2 – The Introduction
Stage 3 – The Conversation
Stage 4 – Closing

Answer 3

I found honesty the best just come up to a woman you like, and make small chat. iv'e been told you have pretty eyes as openers. or others say they like soemthing im wearing. Or i get how tall are you, don't be a jerk and say you like her breast she will have nothing to do with you.

Just pick out something you like about the woman that you want to get to know better. You dont' need some stupid pick up line. Just be honest and go up to her. If she's rude to you. then that will tell you what kind of woman she is anyways and you wouldn't want to have anything to do with her farther.

by the same token if she answers you only to be polite and excuses her self to the ladies room or she has to see a friend. take that as she's not interested in you and don't follow her around like a puppy to talk to her again.

good luck.

Answer 4

I don't know of any good places in London. But what I can tell you is that in order to start a conversation imagine that you are talking to one of your friends and always talk about something that interests you and what you know of. That way you are on the safe side of not looking like a total idiot. Remember always to talk about topics that you can relate to. Best of luck amigo, the rest will take care of itself.

Answer 5

If you are a model then girls should want to talk to you without you needing to worry about chasing them. If you get the look you are on, talk any nonsense!

You haven't mentioned what you are a model for though, Hornby model trains?

Answer 6

One way is to go in armed with a pick-up line, this could get you slapped.
Another is to get her a drink, but she might just use and abuse you for her own selfish gain.
I say, go in with a gun. You aim a handgun on her and you can go anyway you want from there buddyboy, she'll be putty in your hands :D

Answer 7

just approach her, ask her if she wants to drink something, then start conversation, by asking lets say, hey what do you do? once you mention you are a model, she'll be interested and ask you some question that may lead to new topics...

Answer 8

Just start small talk with them, offer to buy a drink, or just introduce your self (don't bee creepy about it) If you are half decent looking you should have no problem.

Answer 9

just go up to them and say hi then offer o by them a drink it usually goes from there.
good luck

Answer 10

don't know i dont like the concept u know picking up women in a bar. if u want a real relation if its just a one night stand then go for it don't worry u'll do just fine.