@ school I don't act really girl... could this be why I don't have a boifriend?
I am 13, blonde shoulder length hair, blue eyes, shortish, + some guys say I am cute. But they still don't 'like' me! HELP
2006-10-08 20:37:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel so left out... All my friends (even the slightly over weight ones) have all had boifriuends
2006-10-08 20:44:27 · update #1
oh honey, I was exactly the same at your age... Boys loved to hang out with me because I was "fun" eg; just like the lads. And while all the other girls had boyfriends, I had loads and loads of guy friends. I found out many years later that most of those boys 'liked' me but because I had so many male friends they thought I must have had a boyfriend so didn't dare ask me out.
I'm nearly 30 now and have had my fair share of boyfriends and athough I was 15 when I got my first, and felt all weird because all of my friends had boyfriends, I realise now that I was the lucky one because when I do run into my old male friends we are still friends and it's wonderful and they always say that I was the 'best chick' in those days because I didn't want anything from them. So hang in there, you'll meet a boy who knocks your socks off and still have loads of guy friends.
2006-10-08 20:58:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey be who you are and the right guy for you will come you don't have to be girly at all I an 23 about to be 24 and I'm still not girly and I've been in a serious relationship for 4 years turns out he doesn't like girly frily chicks and that is fine with me so the right one for you will come along and no matter what be yourself your to young for a boyfriend anywayz just be a kid it doesn't last forever
2006-10-08 20:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Patience. You will get a boyfriend in good time. Not acting girly enough has nothing to do with it. There are lots of boys who would walk over hot coals to be your boyfriend; you just haven't met them yet.
2006-10-08 20:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is an age where the girls who aren't girly girly tend to get stuck in the "i'm your buddy" category. i was in your situation at your age. i was funny and cool and even pretty. but because i wasn't a cheerleader or sooooper girly guys just wanted to hang out with me. and the ones that liked me didn't have the guts to tell me until years later. people like you...i am sure of it. but they are probably afraid to ask you to be their boyfriend........
2006-10-08 20:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well at 13 you need a boyfriend like a fish needs a bicycle= enjoy your friends, hobbies, and school- get involved in sports ect= be you and enjoy it- you have lots of late years to get a boyfriend== no need to rush=d
2006-10-08 20:41:09 · answer #5 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-02-20 15:30:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They probably DO like YOU. But are to imature to tell you.
Don't worry you sound like a sweet person. One will come along pretty soon, just for you.
2006-10-08 20:47:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh my god you are so young and you worried about those things?! i would just ignore the whole world as i can guarantee you that in few years u will be having a whole school running after u, i think they just dont notice u because u r not 15 yet?
2006-10-08 20:41:39 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're only 13~what's the rush?
2006-10-08 20:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Blue Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to be thinking about boys. Get out of diapers, finish up your school, do something with your life, and then think of boys.
2006-10-08 20:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋