friends of opposite sex(i mean) If i love one of my friends should I TELL HER?
2006-10-08 20:23:12 · 12 answers · asked by Gaurav S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you can tell her... but in the right time. don't rush telling it to her. you can start by telling her that you like her. don't jump up by telling her you love her. it might surprise her or scare her. observe her reaction and if you'll see it's making her blush or you see good signs .. telling you she likes you too, you can say "actually, i love you". but then you still don't know what will she feels then. just be ready for the consequences. it might make or break a relationship between you. good luck.
2006-10-08 20:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by misscoyote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, you need to tell her as soon as you can have her alone about your own feelings towards her so that she will know where you stand. Difficult things might occur when it's too late to tell her, she might falls into other friend and have been mutual friendship to other friends out there.
2006-10-08 20:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends can become lovers. for some people, friendship could lead to love. but others can't accept this. love could also lead to the end of their friendship. be careful first and try to observe f your friend feels the same way as you are.
2006-10-08 20:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by math 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! There is absolutely nothing wrong with telling her how you feel for her. Openess and communication is #1 in a friendship/relationship. Start it off right and go tell her.
2006-10-08 20:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should. those are the best kind of boyfriends. the ones that start as your friend first already know what you love and waht you hate. where you like to go and what you like to eat. you never know she might feel the same way about you.
2006-10-08 20:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by beckdawgydawg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just had that same exact question the other day (with a little more detail), and most of my resposes said yes, to tell them, i would say to you, suck it up and just do it. More than likely (if you're like me i mean) what you're imagining is much worse than anything that could happen. good luk!
2006-10-08 20:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me- and like first= cool- so you should know her even better= tell her you really care for her and see what her reaction is= then tell more=D
2006-10-08 20:45:42 · answer #7 · answered by Debby B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her you love her as a friend or love her as a lover. dont mix it up.
2006-10-08 20:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes don't tell her that u love her ...just say that u r really intreasted to know her
2006-10-08 20:25:05 · answer #9 · answered by black cat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur frndship may be at risk.....continue as afrnd.she'll be more frank n' friendly then.
2006-10-08 20:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋