Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

Me and my BF broke up recently for good and I am devistated, the reason why we broke up the first time is because he cheated on me, we got back together and reconciled but now i see that he is up to those same cheating ways. I caught him making plans to see an ex GF
the conversation between the two of them was pretty detailed with a long walk down memory lane. I know the standard advice for anyone who has been cheated on is to JUST LEAVE the person and there is no argument with that but usually the cheat story I have read about peoople say things like oh he or she was treating me badly ect. but that was not the case with me and my ex, because he added to my life and made me a better person, I have matured so much thouruout the course of this relationship which makes it harder for me, if he was a jerk all along I would feel better but all the way to the end, he was nuturing and such a good friend I am extremely confused and can't get it off my mind all day he has been e-mailing me and

2006-10-06 08:34:53 · 2 answers · asked by Thandie 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother has been sick for quite a while and my little sisters room is under construction. She sleeps in my room and always goes through my stuff. My dad is under soo much stress that he feels he has to take it out on me. I can never get away and its constantly sit up sit down now. I wish the doctors would figure out whats wrong with her? Im going crazy... help me find a way to get away?

2006-10-06 08:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by snow_bunny23411 1 in Family

2006-10-06 08:34:23 · 31 answers · asked by MELISSA E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 08:34:20 · 11 answers · asked by Rastaman 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i think i scared my signiticate other, she left me, now what can i do to get her back. i let my imagination get the best of me and thought she might be cheating on me. i know she would not do this, but yet i spied around after her to she if she was. she found out ,the rest is history. help.

2006-10-06 08:33:17 · 15 answers · asked by jpknute1 3 in Singles & Dating

Even they like each other very much?

2006-10-06 08:32:56 · 9 answers · asked by lily 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 08:32:08 · 32 answers · asked by roy 4 in Singles & Dating

help

2006-10-06 08:31:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who left his wife and they are discussing divorce. She has been keeping his daughter away from him unless he gives her money, so he decided to take the baby who is 1 1/2. They have no custody agreement or seperation agreement. He has told her he is keeping the baby from her until they go to court, is this considered parental kidnapping. I have done some searching online and it doesn't look like he has broken any laws, but I am not sure. Any help on this would be great.

2006-10-06 08:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by la_southern_femme 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 08:30:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

No matter what I do, girls always end up calling me their best friend, or saying to me, "aww girl, let me tell you". Its like they see me as the girlfriend that they want.

2006-10-06 08:30:10 · 16 answers · asked by pluto 1 in Singles & Dating

I need presents for my 32 year-old brother, my 24 year-old cousin and my 61 year-old StepDad! Help, please! These are all males and I only have 2 days to shop!

2006-10-06 08:29:57 · 11 answers · asked by Dr. Kat 5 in Family

Im 24 yrs,and im Really scared to get married coz i see everyone getting a divorce these days..although my parents have been married for 26years im just scared if i do it wont work out coz of bad realtionships that ended i cant go though the pain of a divorce wat can i do please help....im not ready to get marry yet but wat can i do to change my mind in the future? p.s im also scared if my husband cheats on me i wont know how to deal with it...

2006-10-06 08:29:53 · 17 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

that has a bleep number and is single and lives in new york city nice answers only

2006-10-06 08:29:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 08:29:09 · 63 answers · asked by Killer 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tells me he loves me everyday and I know he's in love with me. I want to tell him I'm in love with him and that I love him. How should I go about tellling him, I am a little nervous about showing my feelings and telling him that I love him. I know Im for sure in love and I know it should come easy but I can't seem to spit the words out, any help with how to tell him?

2006-10-06 08:28:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I met a man last year at work. he had a girl & i had a man. things that were going on in our lives got us talking to each other, which led to a 7 month affair. we knew it was wrong, but we couldnt stay away from each other. we tried, but we were just so into each other. we were happy. we became best friends & we started to love each other. what were we supposed to do? just one look from him and i'd melt.my man found out about us when he left his wallet in my car one night accidentlly, and called up his girlfriend and a huge blow-up went down, and she kicked him out & he left that night to go to his moms house in another state. its been 9 1/2 months, & i havent heard from him since. im still with my boyfriend, he forgave me, but i long for this man. i cry all the time. i miss him. i know its not fair 2 b with my man & dream of another. am i stupid or crazy, or am i in-love? i dont know what to do. how do i let go? or do i take the risk of trying 2 find him. do i leap, or do nothing?

2006-10-06 08:28:42 · 5 answers · asked by leekee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a guy at my school which I think likes me. I'm not 100% sure, but I'm 90% sure. Whenever he sees me, he gives a good look. Also, he threw a kid's handball across the school yard once, but he let me borrow his even though I don't know him. I've started liking him too, but the thing is that whenever I want to talk to him, it's hard for me to say what I want to say. I get really nervous. I've decided that I HAVE to talk to him on Tuesday. Any suggestions or ideas on what to tell him? Please help me. Thanks!

2006-10-06 08:28:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have been dating my current boyfriend for nearly 2 months now. My step-dad refuses to meet him due to my history of exes. I don't have alot just more than I have ever had. I am almost nighteen. My boyfriend is 21 he's the greatest guy and treats me like a queen. I just need to know how long I should wait on my step-dad to accept that I am maturing and that I do love my boyfriend. I wouldn't mind accept that my step-dad has this control over my mom and if he decides that I don't need to go over there than I can't.
Also I do have a younger brother who means the world to me and I want to be a part of his life when I can. (I am currently a student in a Vocational Trade School)

2006-10-06 08:27:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he never talked to me last year or paied attention because thats when he found out i liked him and stuff....but now hes being very nice he doesnt move when i walk by him and on time he helped he with my homework!!! and another time like yesterday he stepped on my shoe and i said not to and he did it again and smiled :D
and we were actually talking alone out side of the school alone! after school couse we had band practice but other years he wouldnt of done that at all..it was like a special moment we were joking around and stuff
i mean its at the point where i think i could grab his hand and i dont think he would care,,well i think
what do u think does he like me or is he playing with my feelings couse if he likes me and knows i like him he should ASK ME OUT!
or maybe he thinks i dont like him anymore and that makes him happy :(

2006-10-06 08:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by andra_loves_mike 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 08:26:53 · 26 answers · asked by Rastaman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a 18 year old male and I'm gay. I feel really uncomfortable talking to straight males. I feel like they're going to kill me. I only talk to females cause I feel that they are more understanding. I need a straght male's point of view. (or females is fine too) What do straight people feel about gay people?

2006-10-06 08:26:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband is in the Marine Corp and has muster today at 12 noon. When we woke up he said he had to leave at 9am to do some work at the base and get his uniform ready. Well while in the shower he wanted to be intimate but I was reminding him of how he needed to go, but he said he could do his work at a later time. Had we of not of been intimate he would have left at 9am, and when I stopped things he just left the house like it was nonthing. It makes me feel like he just wanted sex...like that was all it was about for him. Am I right? I wanted a special moment but felt cheated somehow like I was being used....he said he was just trying to have a nice romantic moment with me, but with him just leaving so easily makes me feel like it was all about him and the possiblity of him getting off. Can someone help me to understand what happened and what this was about?

2006-10-06 08:26:42 · 17 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"I miss you" or "I want you" Why cant guys just say whats on your minds?

2006-10-06 08:26:31 · 20 answers · asked by marie 4 in Singles & Dating

Im trying to find a asian woman now that i have returned to my home town after being gone for 15yrs, and am not very good at dating

2006-10-06 08:24:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

9 weeks ago at the beginning of school i asked this girl out, she said no.

3 days ago she asked me out, i said no so i wouldnt seem desperate.

but i really like her still so much. and i mean really like her.. like i would run on fire to be with her and when shes not looking, i wish i could freeze time, so i can stare at her.

was this a jerk move?

2006-10-06 08:24:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to know how i can get a girlfriend so that i can spend time with her.

2006-10-06 08:24:35 · 9 answers · asked by acho 1 in Singles & Dating

ok tuesday i was at school when i got home my mom had 2 of my letters that i was going to send to some friends.she said she was looking in my room for some fingernail cutters but my letters were in my backpack so i know she was snooping.and in the letters i wrote about what happened the night she kicked me out.but it was verry detailed! (i let my verginity go & ect.) and i let this guy ive know for 3 years do a lot to me. hes 19 and im going to b 18 in a month.all this happened in augest.what should i do?my mom wont talk to me but thats fine i would rather not talk to her anyway.she finds anything just to yell @ me im always gettin hit im always grounded.when i try and talk to her about things it seems like she turns it all around as if its my fault regreted what ive done.but whats done is done i cant go back and change it!i was supposed to go to work on tuesday my mom didnt let me go im supposed to go today but i know thats not going to happen!im going to get fired!what am i going to

2006-10-06 08:24:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-06 08:23:23 · 15 answers · asked by thingscanbedifferentin07 1 in Singles & Dating

EVer since I was little I've been accused of being a liar. When I was lil I never lied becuz I was afraid of getting in trouble, but I got into trouble anyways and learned to lie. But now that I'm an adult I still find that people have a hard time believing me. I do lie, who doesn't these days, but to people that I don't care about. And those people TRUST me. But the people I care about the most, and who I NEVER lie to think I'm the biggest liar in the world. Even to the people I don't care about, I don't lie to very much, I'm not even a big liar, and yet to some people I'm the biggest liar they think they know!

I know you guys dont know me but it frustrates me, that I even tell more of the truth and still get NOWHERE.

How can I fix it. How can I find wether it's really them or me?

2006-10-06 08:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships