There is a guy at my school which I think likes me. I'm not 100% sure, but I'm 90% sure. Whenever he sees me, he gives a good look. Also, he threw a kid's handball across the school yard once, but he let me borrow his even though I don't know him. I've started liking him too, but the thing is that whenever I want to talk to him, it's hard for me to say what I want to say. I get really nervous. I've decided that I HAVE to talk to him on Tuesday. Any suggestions or ideas on what to tell him? Please help me. Thanks!
2006-10-06 08:28:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys love being asked for help. It is our desire to be wanted and needed, being a guy. Ask him to teach you a sport or help you with a subject you know he is good at (even if you are too). It will be a good icebreaker and it is off the true subject so you should be more relaxed. The other benefit is that you won’t have to feel like you need to show off in front of people when talking to him.
Each guy is different, but really go about it how you would like him to react. If he doesn't react that way then he may not be the guy for you. Half of the relationships I have been in were mistakes because I went after superficies things rather than meaningful girls.
2006-10-06 08:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has the same shyness for speaking with you. Girls mature sooner than boys and have better communication skills.
You will need to work together to learn how to communicate. Take it slow. Just smile and say hi to acknowledge each other. Then you can grow from there. Talk about things. Ask what he is going to do that afternoon or weekend. Discover his interest and let him know your interests.
2006-10-06 08:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow sweetie. Pull out gum and ask him if he wants some. Then ask him about classes he's in , teachers you like/dislike. Who's fun when teaching, which lessons are easy /hard then move on to movies, tv shows, games. Find out his interests and share yours but keep your meetings brief. Talk too long and conversation becomes awkward
2006-10-06 08:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy, with a similar dilema about a girl, go over and talk to him about something you have in common, get to know him better, he obviously likes you. Also, if anyone could pleeaase help with my question in love I would be very gratefull, search 'grand gesture' or click my name for more details.
2006-10-06 08:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by porta_custos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would walk right up to him and say "why did you throw that kids handball across the school yard?"
2006-10-06 08:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you have to make sure that it isn't the feeling of someone liking you that you like but that you really like them. Just talk to them like any normal person. Don't get to flirty at first cause he might not like you cause of that. If you haven never really talked to him and acted diffrent around him before then he prob. likes you for who you are. Oh make sure it's not your looks that he likes. All the best luck! :]
2006-10-06 08:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Ern Bucket 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax.
Listen more than talk. Just dont be afraid to be yourself.
The words will come. Comment on the things he likes and doesnt like, and just make conversation.
2006-10-06 08:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by JusticeManEsq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and say Hi hopefully he will be happy to and help the conversation flow, if not then just say something like about a class you may have together or something.
2006-10-06 08:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt back-what have yiou got to loose? Find out now if he's tolerable to be around or not. Do you share any common friends or interests?
2006-10-06 08:30:40 · answer #9 · answered by mcjih5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step up.you got it in you.walk over smile,and talk about something,anything,random things who cares as long as its something he wont care either he likes you so hes getting attention from you he will love it.and in the end tell him ask if he would like to do something sometime...things will take its own toll from there
good luck!
brittany
2006-10-06 08:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by bree_n09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋