How can I stop being the "girlfriend" to girls, and become a "man" that they desire sexually?

Question

No matter what I do, girls always end up calling me their best friend, or saying to me, "aww girl, let me tell you". Its like they see me as the girlfriend that they want.

Answer 1

I'm going to get straight to the point. If you want to exit the
platonic zone, you need to focus on two things.

Number one, it can be done. And number two, you must make her jealous.
If you have any moral hold ups or any mental roadblocks that will
prevent you from doing it, then continue to listen to the girl of your
dreams yap about some other dude that makes her horny. No
self-respecting man should allow such emasculating events to occur,
but it happens all the time.

Like I said, it can be done. I've personally been on both side of the
equation and I have personally experienced the effectiveness of it.
Meaning I have had women that I regarded as not sexy enough to be
romantic with, only to have them make me jealous to the point where I
ended up sleeping with them or in most cases trying to without any
success.

In these cases, the women weren't intentionally trying to make me
jealous, but the effectiveness of doing it has nothing to do with
whether the person was actively trying to do it or not.

It has everything to do with sexual value. Making someone jealous is
one of the quickest ways to establish your sexual value. I can not
stress that enough. In the platonic situation, she is use to you
showing her some level of romantic attention. Even if she isn't
interested in you, she still will be getting some good feelings from
the attention you show her.

Therefore, by showing that your interest in elsewhere (making her
jealous), you are cutting off the platonic friend's good feelings. She
will lose a happy source. She will be drawn to you on a level that she
can't quite explain. An unconscious attraction will always be more
powerful than a conscious attraction.

For some reason, female friends love to talk about other guys to their
male friends like he is one of their girlfriends. Not only is this a
fact, it's an indication that you have zero sexual value in the eyes
of your female friend.

Here's how to reverse that.

The key is to bring up another female or a past experience with a
female with great detail. If you do it the right way, you will feel
the momentum switch back your way.

Women want MEN. So remind her that you are a man.

Women always love attention.

If you are listening or passively accepting the emasculating
(balls-removing) act of being radiated by her lusting over another
guy, then that is no different than giving her advice on how to
approach the guy or seduce the guy. In either case you basically have
the energy of a female. If you want this female friend, it should
offend you when she yaps to you about another guy.

The next time she does it, just remain calm. You don't have to
externalize your emotions. You will be more successful if you just
calmly let her speak. Then when it feels like it's your turn to talk,
you can calmly mention your story. This is the shift and you will
experience the beneficial magic. You will notice and feel a slight
shift in momentum. If anything is ever going to happen between the two
of you, this slight shift must take place. This is the easiest,
quickest and most fun way of getting it.

So when it is your turn to talk, just remember to be extremely
descriptive - to the point where you can sense that it is making her
uncomfortable. She must feel the discomfort. This is where most of the
points are scored. If you blurt out your story, cut her off, or show
that you are frustrated with her talking about some guy, then you are
not accomplishing anything.

The idea is to increase your sexual value. Acting overly emotional
will not accomplish that.

The idea is to reclaim your sexual value. And it is universal. This
works:

1. If you are just protecting your balls even with a female you don't
even care about.

2. If you want to increase your perceived sexual value in the eyes of
a female friend you are interested in.

3. If you want to increase your perceived sexual value in your
relationship (often a current girlfriend or wife may mentioned an
ex-boyfriend in an uncomfortable fashion - keep in mind, the energy is
the same).
Here's how to be real effective at the golden reversal.

1. Be extremely descriptive in your story. You want your story to run
through her head. Remember women love fairy tales, so they often
exercise their imagination power by daydreaming and fantasizing.

2. Be calm. Let her talk. Let her get it out of her system. Don't
over-react by screaming at her to never talk about other guys to you.
Just let her talk and be calm. You'll get your turn.

3. You can use it to send other important messages (for example, you
can talk about how a girl you are seeing seems like she can't get
enough sex from you. You get the idea.)

You will know if you were successful if:

1. She accuses you of giving too much information or being too graphic
-maybe you went too far, but you still got the job done.

2. She appears kind of withdrawn or there is a moment of silence - she
is reflecting and absorbing.

3. She attacks your story or the girl in some way. It's a defensive
mechanism. Keep in mind, the art of making her jealous works and it
is very powerful. You can actually make a girl jealous within seconds
of meeting her. Statistics have shown that jealous wives tend to be
more sexual towards their husbands and will often make an extra
attempt to look more beautiful.
Remember, this a just a tool that is very effective in reclaiming or
establishing your sexual value. Again if you have any moral hold ups,
you will continue to suffer. There is nothing wrong with doing this,
because the bottom line is if you have no sexual value women will not
want to sleep with you.


....The power of this technique when applied to the platonic friend is
that she will not expect it, so you end up communicating a lot of
powerful messages. You can perform the art of jealousy in both
directions.

Cultivating jealousy is kind of like strengthening your arms. You got
to work the biceps (pull movements) and triceps (push movements).
Therefore, the target female has to be jealous of your interest being
displayed towards (pushing out) another female as well as being
jealous of another female showing interest in you (pulling in).

Keep in mind, the beauty of jealousy is that the events can be
perceived or loosely supported and they will be just as effective. I
told my girlfriend the other day that I had this weird dream that I
had sex with the lady across the street (who is super sexy). It worked
like a charm. Afterwards, it appeared as if she resented the woman! As
if the woman actually had sex with me. She obsessed over it the whole
day. Later on that night she put on an amazing sexual performance.

I remember one time I was working at an old job. I wasn't in a
relationship at the time, but my female coworker was. She was talking
about her boyfriend and how wonderful he was, so then I started
talking about this girl I was seeing.

I didn't necessarily take offense to the talks of her man, but shortly
after describing the events with the girl I'm seeing, the co-worker
appeared to get jealous - even though she was admittedly in a loving
relationship. It was obvious. At the time I wasn't trying to make her
jealous, but shortly after we finished talking she scheduled an
'appointment' in her book for us to hook-up.

Obviously nothing is guaranteed, but to greatly increase your odds of
success you want to make sure that the friend is getting something out
you giving her romantic interest in her. For example, if she smiles
very hard, after a compliment, then that is an indication of her
getting something out of it - even though she may be rejecting you on
the romantic level.

As a pre-step you may even want to pump up the flattery for a few
days, to get her quite addicted to those feelings.

You want to maintain those good feelings she is getting from you over
a certain period of time. This will get her really addicted to those
good feelings (and addicted to you, because you are the owner of those
good feelings). Then you want to cut off those feelings instantly and
place them elsewhere. This created a shock. In other words, you want
the friend to gain knowledge that you are pursuing someone else. And
it is more effective if the friend has the perception that the other
female is interested in you.

Once your female friend starts showing interest in you, don't be so
quick to run in her arms like a lost puppy does when he's reunited
with his owner. There's plenty of resources out there that explain how
to keep her interested, but the main thing you want to focus on is
being nonchalant.

That should take you pretty far...


HAVE FUN!!.

Answer 2

Pakistani women are considered property to be traded in Marriage for wealth therefore, when the women rebel because they have a mind of their own they are beaten, sometimes killed because they actually dare refuse to toe the line. This has been happening not just in Pakistan but any other country that they live and they call it religion that is a cover for their ignorance in that they don't believe in true love. Some of these women live in fear all their lives because of the customs of Muslim parents and other family members. There have been many cases in the UK where the women have been murdered & the murderers got away with it too. The only thing that can be done about this is for the Governments of each Country to change the Law for every citizen living in that country to adhere to the law of the land on which they live. When in Rome you do as the Romans do, if you don't like it then leave.

Answer 3

Say something like "It's great that we're friends, but I want something more. I'm looking for a woman who will treat me as a man, not just as a friend. I'd like that to be you".

If she indicates she isn't ready to handle that, then say "Okay, I'm fine with being friends, and I'm happy to have that continue, but don't expect to see as much of me". Then make it stick: don't spend any more time with you than you would with a male friend. If she calls when your favorite TV program is on, tell her to call back in an hour. She doesn't deserve to be the top priority in your life if you aren't the top priority in hers.

If the two of you are close and there really is relationship potential, there's a good chance that she'll be willing to start treating you as a boyfriend. If she doesn't, then you never had anything more than friendship to begin with. By all means, continue enjoying the friendship, but don't let it stop you from finding someone else.

Answer 4

Are you easy to talk to? Do you give good advice? Or you always understanding them (girls) in some sort of way?If you answered yes to any of the following questions, that is why. My husband is the same way but you know what that is what made me marry him. Nothing is wrong with girls lookin at you as a friend. I"m sure you want it to be much more but who knows eventually your princess may show up if you continue doing what you are doing. Brother!!! Think about it!!!! You know how the ladies love a caring and loving male to be around. Be patient, your princess will come. Watch Out!!!! (smile!)

Answer 5

BE A MAN! Stop actin' like a girl! Be sensitive but be a man.. don't be sensitive in a gay way.. =/ and jus relax girl's will come to you.. if you love a girl tell them how you feel.. that's the way ANY girl would love especially in my opinion

Answer 6

Dont act like a woman with them? If they ever call you girlfriend as in omg girlfriend lets go shopping...then you might as well look for another...dont be a girl

Answer 7

maybe stop being like a friend figure to the girls you like and dont have to much in common with them be the total opposite of them not what level they are on

Answer 8

How have you placed YOURSELF in this position? ANyway let them know you do not want to been thought of as just their friend. See what happens.

Answer 9

Maybe when you stop being a G... you a man?!

Answer 10

stop acting like a girl...treat them for the bitches that they are and watch how they will change.

Answer 11

maybe you shouldn't go to them and let them go to u. my bro says "i dont go to my bitches" but hes just kidding but it might work

good luck*_*