My boyfriend tells me he loves me everyday and I know he's in love with me. I want to tell him I'm in love with him and that I love him. How should I go about tellling him, I am a little nervous about showing my feelings and telling him that I love him. I know Im for sure in love and I know it should come easy but I can't seem to spit the words out, any help with how to tell him?
2006-10-06 08:28:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you really love him just look him in the eyes and say,... "I love you."
2006-10-06 09:01:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you mean it before you say it because once it is said, it can't be taken back. If you are afraid to say it, then maybe you are in love but don't love him or you love him but are not in love with him. Yes, there is a difference.
Love is an emotion that can be used for a lot of different things, such as I love my dog, I love my wife, I love Italian food, I love riding motorcycles, etc. However, being in love is a lot different. Being in love takes emotion, committment, feeling, energy. . . just as I am majorly IN love with my wife.
Therefore, make sure that you really do love him and are in love with him before you say anything. If you are, then just relax and tell him. Don't be shy!
2006-10-06 08:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so afraid to tell him? How long have you been together? If you truly love him then it shouldn't be that hard. When my man says it to me I always respond back with it unless I'm mad at him. Your not giving him your heart if you can't say it. Get the courage up and just spit it out when he says it to you. Good luck!
2006-10-06 08:33:58 · answer #3 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel it then go ahead and say it, But if not don't. He'll know if you 'feel' it or not. You reminded me of when I first told my boyfriend "I love You". I was dropping him off at work and I blurted, "ok Honey have a good day at work -I love you"....You should have seen the look on his face! Poor guy he didn't know what to do. He later told me that the whole rest of the day he was soooo happy. Even his co-workers noticed.
Good luck sweetie.
You'll do fine.
2006-10-06 08:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Hollygood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him I love you can be done in many ways. Just tell him, by flowers, a letter doing little things for him, and allot of other ways to.
2006-10-06 08:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he says it to you, say it back. It's not that hard. If you love someone, tell them now cause you never know if today could be your last, then you would've never told that person how you felt.
2006-10-06 08:31:57 · answer #6 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easiest is when he says it say it back. It'll come out at the right time don't worry. Congrats on finding love.
2006-10-06 08:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by tpurtygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly on love then it shouldn't be hard at all to tell the person. Just do it.
2006-10-06 08:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Tammy G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write it in huge letters in the snow, or the sand on the beach, or write it in a poem---something that will make him feel as if you truly mean it
2006-10-06 08:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth and say I love you. If it helps, stand in front of a mirror first. When you say it, try to smile and not look horrified. It helps.
2006-10-06 08:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by noir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋