Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

My boyfriend was invited to a barbeque by mutual friends of ours ..well we were both invited. But he called me and said he was going to go by himself because we didn't have a babysitter, he didn't even ask me if i wanted to find a babysitter. Which automatically makes me think "ok..he wants guy time" which is cool. so i found a babysitter and made some plans to have some long overdue girl time well when he found out i was all of a sudden invited, My question: 1. Why now does he want me to go along. 2.Why cant he just say I need some guy time

2006-10-06 07:55:30 · 22 answers · asked by slightlyjayded 2 in Singles & Dating

I just had a baby a little over two months ago and I can't seem to figure out how to get back into our old sexual habits. We were both really into each other, then I got pregnant. So we didn't have sex at all the last 3 months. And since she has been born we have only done it 3 times and I really want to get him back to the way it used to be. Can anyone help me out and tell me how to bring the passion back into our sex life? I had my tubes tied after the the baby was born so Help me please I really miss how it used to be. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. PLEASE HELP!

2006-10-06 07:54:48 · 15 answers · asked by Kimberly S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It seems like every guy I meet on match.com has went through hundreds of women and I want someone who is like myself and who isn't out just to date anyone for a one night stand. I'm looking for a guy who will have respect on a first date. What are others opinions on match.com?

2006-10-06 07:54:42 · 9 answers · asked by Libby 1 in Singles & Dating

how should i feel about this, I am gay, so people who only relat should reply. :-)

2006-10-06 07:54:41 · 7 answers · asked by Justwondering 1 in Singles & Dating

or female.

2006-10-06 07:54:17 · 20 answers · asked by horrorfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

guys, at what point is a girl trying too hard to get your affection?
do you like it if a girl takes a lot of iniative in the reationship or does it usually seem desperate? what about coming on too strong?
any thoughts/opinions?

2006-10-06 07:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how it started and how you ended it?did it hurt or was it ok?

2006-10-06 07:53:17 · 17 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am conservative, but try not to be jugemental.

I found out that my friend got pregnate on purpose to trap her man into marring her for stability.


My friend has been going to strip clubs with her husband & he buys her lap dances.

she has been naked in a swimming pool at a party, with her husband, her cousin, and other people. (My friend is 40) No I was not there. She has told me all of this.

My husband now thinks they might be swingers and wants me and our family ( the baby) away from this family.

He feels you are who you hang out with. My husband and I are all NOT the above. Do you believe you are who you hang out with?

2006-10-06 07:52:44 · 13 answers · asked by Dori 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and they get divorced does she really deserve any of his money?
Or is a husband plays video games all day while his wife works and he cheats on her and they get divorced does he deserve any of her money?

2006-10-06 07:52:24 · 34 answers · asked by horrorfan 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 07:52:22 · 9 answers · asked by Nyah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 07:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by mrkittypong 5 in Marriage & Divorce

On Wednesday I found my 11 year old sister sleeping with her 11 year old friend (who is a boy). They were under the blanket and had their arms around each other. They had all their clothes on.

I woke them up and told him to go home. But I promised I wouldn't tell mom. At first I was kinda surprised because she is very ungirly.. she doesn't like boys. And this boy is her only friend. They are both very smart. They have a lot in common and they are very close. I don't want to ruin their relationship.

But I am kinda worried that my sister might have "psychological" problems that need to be addressed. She is very much a loner and doesn't express feelings well.

I don't know.. what do you think about this?

2006-10-06 07:51:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

at my church who always stares at me, he's really hot but does this mean he likes me??

Thanks for the help!

2006-10-06 07:51:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

u know how 2 deal with ppl! what ppl should a person avoid! i am just curious about ppls point of view towards realtionships and friendship!

2006-10-06 07:51:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok. So I go to a boarding school. And last night we had our homecoming..So I went with this really nice and cute guy. Lets call him john. Well we were having a great time until, my friend and her date (who also asked me to the homecoming) came over and started making all these rumors about me. Well her date didn't say anything, but my friend was like,"Yea, and she was cheating on you with my date", making my boyfriend really confused. My boyfriend doesn't believe her, but why is she doing this? Is she jealous? Please help:) thanks

2006-10-06 07:51:29 · 13 answers · asked by Kay 2 in Singles & Dating

help me i am stranded...he just vanished into thin air. it was an online relationshipbut we were pretty serious and suddenly he vanished into thin air! been a month since he wrote or called. he doesnt reply to my offliners either. i feelwalked over and horrible. we never met

2006-10-06 07:51:05 · 13 answers · asked by botled_up_rage 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What is it about your spouse that makes you remain faithful? I'd like to hear from the guys on this one. And if you did cheat, how did you manage to hold on to your wife?

2006-10-06 07:51:02 · 12 answers · asked by vitamin D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I started receiving these text messages on my phone today. They are making references to things I have not done. Suggesting things like, "yesterday was fun, let's do it again." "Meet me tomorrow for a nooner." "I'm not wearing any panties."

Sounds crazy, but I think she is doing to get a reaction out of me somehow. She is sending them anonomously, but I know it's her, because I have suspected her of cheating, I think she is trying to frame me or something. I delete the text messages from my phone, but should I confront her about sending them or should I just let her mind wander???

2006-10-06 07:50:33 · 6 answers · asked by imagineus2night 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She smokes,has sex,talks dirty,and much more.How do I help her?I tried telling someone but it didn't help,and her dad doesn't seem to care.

2006-10-06 07:49:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how to prevent

2006-10-06 07:49:56 · 18 answers · asked by tomayoukhana 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm leaving in three days for another city for my stuydies and will be back next july.i am very sad but i have to leave my girlfriend here, as she studies here. i will meet her for one last time on sunday before i go. i dont know how to react or what to say to her. we really love each other and i want to come back to her. how do i say goodbye without being a CRY BABY???i cannot see her cry on my shoulder.

2006-10-06 07:49:41 · 18 answers · asked by loving_u_4ever_n_always 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 07:49:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i myself have forgiven some people for things that they did to me and hurt but i will never forget about them
what's your opinion?

2006-10-06 07:48:34 · 4 answers · asked by girl24gr 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 07:47:52 · 7 answers · asked by gena 1 in Weddings

2006-10-06 07:47:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like a horny 15 year old boy over here!

2006-10-06 07:47:27 · 5 answers · asked by Desprate To Know 2 in Singles & Dating

Etc.. A girl 1/2 his age or like from 21-32 and for what? none , some, or all the above and would you?; and, if not listed are you male or female ? and, if you don't mind what is your present age?

2006-10-06 07:47:21 · 14 answers · asked by automan_2 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 07:46:30 · 13 answers · asked by MomOf1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Sorry if this is long but I'm driving myself insane over this situation. My boyfriend and I just broke up because he is going through a lot of crap right now. He has no time and has a lot of stress so he didn't think it would be right to date me. I know this is all true but I'm having 2nd thoughts because a little bit before he broke it off I thought he started to have feelings for his ex who he still hangs around with(could be paranoid though). I don't think she would ever take him back though because of his past. I also worry about him because he is such a great friend, I have a feeling all this stress in his life could lead him back to his past of drugs and alcohol. If he went back to that I would not date him. If everything calms down in his life I could see us getting back together but now we are just friends-but should I even think about getting back with him? If every time he goes through a crappy situation and breaks it off I don't think I'll be able to do it.

2006-10-06 07:45:45 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 33 and have been married for 7 years. My wife and I argue constantly. We have a 5 year old daughter that is my life. I work all week, do all the laundry, cook the meals, mow the grass, and always pick up after myself. She does not work (daughter in school most of the day). She started gaining weight as soon as I asked her to marry me and has gained 80 lbs. She also gets irrate with me every time I ask her to just pick up after herself, saying I am criticising her. She can not enjoy a moment without finding something to get irritated about. The only thing she does is talk on the phone, watch TV and eat. She does help with the church and meals on wheels but that doesn't take much time. I know it just sounds like I'm complaining but I feel like I give everything and am miserable in return. I don't want to divorce because I would miss seeing my daughter all the time, but I don't think I can take much more. Plus I don't want our little girl to see us argue all the time. Help!

2006-10-06 07:44:53 · 43 answers · asked by dubhub9 1 in Marriage & Divorce