On Wednesday I found my 11 year old sister sleeping with her 11 year old friend (who is a boy). They were under the blanket and had their arms around each other. They had all their clothes on.
I woke them up and told him to go home. But I promised I wouldn't tell mom. At first I was kinda surprised because she is very ungirly.. she doesn't like boys. And this boy is her only friend. They are both very smart. They have a lot in common and they are very close. I don't want to ruin their relationship.
But I am kinda worried that my sister might have "psychological" problems that need to be addressed. She is very much a loner and doesn't express feelings well.
I don't know.. what do you think about this?
2006-10-06 07:51:59 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Children can be funny like that. I really don't think there's anything to worry about. Especially if she's a loner, let her have her friend, and the affection. Maybe this is her way of expressing something that she doesn't know how.
2006-10-06 07:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your sister is just comfortable with her friend, and you are looking under the bed for problems that may or may not exist.You can ask her to speak to a school councillor as any thing she tells them is confidential.. And you won't have to stir up a big problem, and possibly hurt your sister. She may even trust you more because of your loving gesture
2006-10-06 08:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD LEAVE THEM ALONE, THEY HAVE NO IDEA
2006-10-06 07:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by jamietogood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋