help me i am stranded...he just vanished into thin air. it was an online relationshipbut we were pretty serious and suddenly he vanished into thin air! been a month since he wrote or called. he doesnt reply to my offliners either. i feelwalked over and horrible. we never met
2006-10-06 07:51:05 · 13 answers · asked by botled_up_rage 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, he took the cowards way out by not saying anything, but his message seems pretty clear. He isn't interested in maintaining any contact with you and you will probably never get a reason why. You just have to suck it up and move on. It probably isn't even anything to do with you, maybe he's in jail or he's really 14 or he is married...you just don't really know with someone on the internet!
2006-10-06 07:55:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The if you NEVER met, get over it!! You don't really know who your talking to online with pictures posted or not!
HUmm, maybe he's married, maybe he's a bad boy who's mommy turned off his internet, maybe he lost his job and can't afford his internet or phone any more..
Your not the only one in his life. Maybe he was hit by a bus, or killed in the "running of the bulls", maybe he went cliff jumping and didn't make it to the bottom?? Geez, maybe he's in jail from molesting his own sister, or for molesting the neighbors dog???
many reasons why you got the dump, deedy dump!!
2006-10-06 14:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had a wife at home that found out and made him get offline, Not a good idea to fall for an internet guy you have never seen.
2006-10-06 15:01:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ms T in GI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't vanish, the relationship never really existed. How do you know he wasn't married or involved with someone if you never met?
He might have met someone else and didn't have the guts to tell you.
In the future, please consider evaluating what the relationship really is before you invest your emotions in it.
2006-10-06 14:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hurts but it seems like you're guy is a coward who doesn't have the guts to tell you how he feels so he's just avoiding you. You don't need someone like that, you can do much better! It sucks now, but soon a new guy will come along and you'll forget about that other loser.
2006-10-06 14:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he found someone that he really could be with. maybe he was seeing someone and you were on the side. thats why i dont do online relationships. you never really know what you are going to get. that hurts i know but you will get over it i promise. take care.
2006-10-06 14:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard, but you need to forget about him and move on. Do you really want someone that will so easily move on and leave you hanging? You are better and more special than that.
2006-10-06 14:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by Notu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, take ahint get out of this so called relationship, your better than that.
2006-10-06 14:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by vickie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE EXPLAIN TO ME HOW YOU CAN HAVE A BOYFRIEND YOU HAVE NEVER MET??? HOW DO YOU EVEN KNOW FOR SURE IT WAS EVEN A GUY? HERE'S A TIP STOP TRYING TO DATE THROUGH YOUR COMPUTER...GO OUT AND FIND A REAL RELATIONSHIP!!!
2006-10-06 15:06:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm!!!!! first of all ONLINE RELATIONSHIP.........dats not safe at all...you dnt know what the hell he doing out there....move on girl....you could be talking to somebody thats like 30 years old for all you know.... iono know wat type of relationship you can have with out ever seeing the person...
2006-10-06 14:56:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋