Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

...if your wife had a penpal in prison that was serving 25 to life?

Years ago, I was in a sociology class and this lady came in to talk about this organization to keep kids out the street. In doing so, she brought up this murder case which was the foundation on which this organization was built. This story really touched me so I asked for the address to the prisoner she mentioned. At the time I was in the process of changing major of Criminology due to a proposition that relates to this case and this cases really brought it home for me. So, I started writing this guy and getting insight. When I meet my husband, then boyfriend, I told him I was writing and he had no problem. Then we got married and he saw the box of letters and started questioning me if I was still writing. We talked about it and he tried to act as if he didn't mind me writing but I could tell he wasn't okay with it. Now, out of respect for my husband I told the guy that it would be a problem for me to write.

2006-10-06 07:33:18 · 26 answers · asked by Coco 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok i'm 12 and I like these two guys.One of ems 18 and one of ems 14...I know the 18 yr old is two old for me but just get what i'm sayin ok??Well one of em is really nice and sweet and I like seriously love him and the other is like very flirty..but also very sexual(I haven't done anything with him so don't worry.)And I don't know which one to choose because both of them bring out different sides to me.Please help!!!!!

2006-10-06 07:33:06 · 20 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Singles & Dating

Just curious---

What complications could arise?

What happens when kids come in the picture?

Could such a relationship survive? , and if so---do elaborate or provide an example of a real situation that you know about.

2006-10-06 07:32:37 · 5 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Singles & Dating

My sister just quit her job and now she says that she isn't going to look for a job for an undetermined amount of time. She wants to be a housewife, but she doesn't have any kids at home! She probably won't have any more kids either. She's 44 and already has a grown daugher from another marriage.

I think it's wrong not to work; it weakens your character.

2006-10-06 07:32:27 · 14 answers · asked by Miss Muffet 1 in Family

im just wondering.because there a bunch of woman here complaining about their husband watching porn and im like is not like if they can f u c k the tv.so im just wondering.

2006-10-06 07:32:15 · 21 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

We're a young couple in our early twenties with a HUGE problem. He feels that I keep alot of my feelings in and don't tell him anything. I feel like I tell him how I feel but he says he knows there's things I hold in. What kinds of things do you guys want to know? He feels like he doesn't really know everything about me but I'm completely puzzled on what he wants to know. I ask him what it is I don't tell him, but he says that I should think about it. He says this relationship will end if I can't communicate clearly which breaks me up inside because I love him to death. Because of my poor communication problems he feels he can't trust me because if I can't tell him something as small as " how I feeel about my fathre" then I am probably not telling him other things. People please help me on what he might want to hear...we have a baby on the way and this stress is killing me. I just wish I knew how to talk better...

2006-10-06 07:31:45 · 7 answers · asked by Tara A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My son screams when he is mad, when he is happy, when he is out playing, basically doing anything. I can't get him to stop. We have tried timeouts, we have tried spanking him, we have tried taking things away, we tried grabbing his mouth, we tried making him go to bed. My sister-in-law work for social servies she suggested most of these things and none of them worked. So now what do I do I feel like I am Losing the battle with him. My first was so easy but do is so hard. He is always going, He breaks everything, his is big and stong for his age and he has a good heart. I just want some serious answer and tips of what I can try. Please no answers about how I am a bad mom I already feel bad enough.

2006-10-06 07:31:33 · 4 answers · asked by missy mae 1 in Family

My ex-boyfriend keeps asking me out and i told him no, like ten thousand times now, everytime i look near his direction he's looking at me, it really scares me. What should I do, do i tell him to leave me alone, or do i just take it and go on?

2006-10-06 07:30:54 · 35 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Singles & Dating

and then she told me it was fine and that she hoped we'd be happy together but now she is calling other people including my friends b/f stealers! Should I call her out on it? if you have serious responses write to Rebel_Punk_Chic_666@yahoo.com

2006-10-06 07:30:44 · 3 answers · asked by BAMBAM 1 in Friends

im 17.and we have only been going out for 2months...

2006-10-06 07:30:00 · 18 answers · asked by jessikurz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

does this guy rally love me he is alwys flriting wth my friends in front of my kissing them never waits for me whn i walk him to class he walk ahead wht his friends he tells me he loves me but i dont know does he or does he not someone plse help me

2006-10-06 07:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by pakiegirl916 2 in Singles & Dating

The adjective alluring has one meaning:highly attractive and able to arouse hope or desire.. Sounds like a contradiction statement?? What do u think??

2006-10-06 07:29:49 · 8 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 07:27:48 · 11 answers · asked by delias 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Despite the fact that it's not legal, I just don't think it's right. He's an adult, she's too young, she shouldn't be thinking of serious relationships at 15, I know I wasn't!!!

What are your thoughts about it?

2006-10-06 07:27:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many people actually have a sucessful relationship and marry their bf/gf that they met when they were 15??

2006-10-06 07:27:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

will the cousins look exactly alike? or will they be as different as most cousins are?

2006-10-06 07:26:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 07:26:18 · 3 answers · asked by delias 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 07:25:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i met someone but too early on i got serious-after the second date...(eh, i'm not very experienced in dating). did i scare him off? i really like him and he said the same about me but he admitted he quite recently come out of a 10yr term relationship (2 years ago) and doesn't feel like settling down yet(he's 31). so do i go with him and possibly fall in love with him even though he admits he wants to sow some wild oats or do i just forget him?....though i can't seem to forget him.... : (

2006-10-06 07:25:44 · 17 answers · asked by not such a smart girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 07:25:40 · 1 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3 in Singles & Dating

So my girlfriend and me go to different schools and she works and I have an internship so we get to see each other about once a week. She is approached by guys often and is "tempted", but she has a guy "friend" who likes her and she likes but she loves me so he respects that and is a "friend". Lately everything he tells her she seems to like to hear so she follows him without question, and he told her that I need to step up and confront her parents about letting me come over, so she believes everything he says and orders me to talk to her parents. What do you guys make of this situation?

2006-10-06 07:25:13 · 4 answers · asked by ME2010 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 07:25:05 · 20 answers · asked by no name 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ex-wife has been “Baker Acted” (where police, judge or physiatrist find a person harmful to themselves or others and hospitalizes them until they are rational) and thus lost custody of the wonderful older children (16,14 & 9). Father temporarily stops working/traveling to take care of his family. When the father returns to work 3 months later, he puts a “Nanny” in charge; the ex-wife shows up one night and tells the “Nanny” that she is taking over and makes the “Nanny” leave. What’s the right next step for the father?

2006-10-06 07:25:02 · 11 answers · asked by bl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

in getting to know me. I am a single 22 year old puerto rican mamacita. i like men that are 22-32 years of age and are nice and funny and smart and of course well groomed. nice answers only.

2006-10-06 07:24:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why the heck does my husband and all guys for that matter watch porn? Is there something wrong with me? What am I ugly or something??? what should I do to stop him?

2006-10-06 07:23:21 · 22 answers · asked by tinkerbella 2 in Marriage & Divorce

3 years ago I was engaged to a wonderful man. We had been living to together for a few months. To make a long story short I moved out and never explained to him why I left. There were options that could have been worked out for us to be together. I freaked and ran instead of dealing with things. He was devistated and kept begging me to stay and explain what happened with us. I broke his heart and have always been very sorry. I am wondering if it's too late to apologize. He has been seeing someone for a while now and I don't want to cause trouble. Should I contact him to apologize or just leave him alone?

2006-10-06 07:23:18 · 19 answers · asked by laugheveryday 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

smart , cute but over-weight. c- Light brown skin & hazel eyes, six packs, hot & great in bed, but poor. d- Short, fat , bald ,and ugly, but very wealthy ?

2006-10-06 07:23:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 07:23:02 · 40 answers · asked by suebie 6 in Weddings

I have one for each day of the week and it's great. Should I try to double that and get 14 girlfriends?

2006-10-06 07:22:53 · 16 answers · asked by Nice Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

because I'm in a relationship, a dysfunctional one, already. I'm so scared of breaking up. Does anyone else feel this way and what to you do? I'm not married, been with this guy for six years and know it's not going anywhere. Sheer frustration...

2006-10-06 07:22:43 · 22 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Singles & Dating