So my girlfriend and me go to different schools and she works and I have an internship so we get to see each other about once a week. She is approached by guys often and is "tempted", but she has a guy "friend" who likes her and she likes but she loves me so he respects that and is a "friend". Lately everything he tells her she seems to like to hear so she follows him without question, and he told her that I need to step up and confront her parents about letting me come over, so she believes everything he says and orders me to talk to her parents. What do you guys make of this situation?
2006-10-06 07:25:13 · 4 answers · asked by ME2010 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He called her last night saying he is in love with her and will back off out of respect for me, then calls her again today saying he wants her. Then she calls me to tell me the whole story about his life and how she doesn't want to leave me but doesn't want to hurt him. This is ridiculous. Advice?
2006-10-07 03:28:36 · update #1
What does your heart say? My guess is you want to remain respectful to her parents rule, or you wouldn't be asking for help. Never let anyone pressure you into anything. If your girl is truly for you, she will understand.
Understand this, respect goes a long way.
Never mind what he's telling her, you do your thing. Be the person you were created to be and not a follower, and which ever way things turn out, know that you did what you felt was best, and not what someone told you to do.
2006-10-06 07:56:41 · answer #1 · answered by mouse in chicago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy "friend" of your girlfriends is trying to take her off her feet and steal her from you. If she wants to believe everything he is saying, then I don't think she loves you as much as she says she does. You might want to think about yourself in this situation and not what she wants because aparently she wants you to be what this friend of her is being towards her. Not fair to you!
2006-10-06 14:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by marypaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty bad. Your gf shouldn't listen to anyone like that. Talking to her about this might just upset her and I really wouldn't talk to her parents 'cause it'd be for all the wrong reasons. this is a hard one but I guess all you can really do is talk to her...
2006-10-06 14:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you got somebody in your own backyard someone is trying to steal your girl and you cant even see it please stop the madness confront your girl and let her know on a serious basis that you are not gona deal with this advice hes giving to her especially when your her man and not him. for all you know hes probably planned out perfectly how and when hes gona make her all his good luck parter .......E
2006-10-06 14:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋