My ex-boyfriend keeps asking me out and i told him no, like ten thousand times now, everytime i look near his direction he's looking at me, it really scares me. What should I do, do i tell him to leave me alone, or do i just take it and go on?
2006-10-06 07:30:54 · 35 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He cheated on me, and that's why we broke up. My cousin is like his best friend, he's the reason why we hooked up. And his sister is my best friend, so am i pretty much screwed?
2006-10-06 07:49:27 · update #1
And i have no feelings for him.
2006-10-06 07:50:02 · update #2
give him a dictionary/thesaurus...then say
look for the meaning of "over".....
2006-10-06 07:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by mottie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This depends on the past you've had with him. You guys broke up so something was wrong. Ask yourself if he's really scaring you. If so, don't leave it at telling him to leave you alone. Report his ***! Seriously it's a scary world and at least if he does attempt to do something to you, there will be a police report and this makes it much easier for you to get an restraining order.. I know it sounds harsh but it is a harsh world. But if you don't wanna go that extreme, tell your parents, or brothers or even a current guy you're seeing.
2006-10-06 07:35:23 · answer #2 · answered by KIm Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should explain to him that it's really creeping you out! Tell him that you want him to stop. And you may want to add that if he wants to get back with you ... you don't want to be scared of the person you're dating. So, if he's smart, he'll get the hint that if he doesn't back off he doesn't have a chance at getting back with you (even if you don't want him back ... you could try it). If he follows you around and won't leave you alone it could be considered stalking or harassment (only if it's outside of school). If he comes to where you work to bug you or if he even comes to your house to bug you or he constantly calls you it's harassment. File charges if he doesn't stop. Hopefully, you can talk some sense into him before you have to do that but it's a choice. Good luck!
2006-10-06 07:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by cutie447_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't love him and there is no chance of a future at all from now until the end of time for your relationship to start again. You are very flattered he'd go to such lenghts but you're moving on and would like to see him move on too. guys are bad at taking the hint however if you think this could become a dangerous situation talk to someone sooner rather than latter
2006-10-06 07:35:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really all depends if you still have feelings for him and if you dont tell him to leave you alone and go on about your business and if you still love him then get back with him but it's based on you so you need to figure your feelings out for him....... thats the only way you will ever find out i found out the hard way and its not fun at all...
2006-10-06 07:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffy Poo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't want him to do that then i think you should tell him that. some guys are like that right after they break up with someone. i know there's a guy that used to follow me like that too.i told him that if he didn't leave me alone that i would have him hung by his toes from my bedroom window.(my room is on the 2nd floor) so yeah.
2006-10-06 07:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by mariah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are certain it is over-tell him firmly. Some women still like some attention after they say it is over, so make sure you aren't sending a double-signal to him. He must know you are firm. You must transfer to your next boyfriend. Sometimes women must have help from family, friends, and even Law-Enforcement.
2006-10-06 07:45:08 · answer #7 · answered by MICKEY M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant stop a person from looking at you so I would just leave it alone.
2006-10-06 07:33:32 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him! Unless you think he may turn psycho on you, then don't even give him the time of day. If he is crazy, tell someone for the record, and do your best to stay away!
2006-10-06 07:34:55 · answer #9 · answered by shondak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem a few weeks ago (except that we were both in different countries so that makes my situation a bit easier...), but if he doesn't listen, try and send distractions his way. Eventually, he will back off, but you should make it clear that you aren't interested anymore.
2006-10-06 07:36:15 · answer #10 · answered by Aicha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him to leave me alone. If that doesn't work, try to get someone else to tell him to back off. It sounds pretty creepy to me.
2006-10-06 07:33:32 · answer #11 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋