My fiancee and I have been going through a lot lately. He is pushing 30, and I am almost 22. There is a large age gap, but it works for us. Early in our relationship, I became close to his sister. I confided in her, and she has used everything against me. I never once said anything derogatory to her. She has been engaged for 7 years, and he as not set a date to marry her yet. During the wedding planning, my fiancee and I cracked a joke about how we would end up getting married before them. Somehow she found out, and will not forgive me. This was almost a year ago. I have tried numerous times to make peace with her, but she refuses. She has given my fiancee the impression that she regularly speaks with his parents about me, and I don't like it. I have tried so hard to have them accept me as my family has embraced him. My parents and I mesh well with his parents, but what can I do to calm things down with her before the wedding, and most importantly before having children?
2006-10-06
07:04:24
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