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My friend of 10 years said somethings to my boyfriends best friend try to break up my boyfriend and I. It didn't work. It only ruined his friendship with his best friend of 20 years. I trusted her with some things that I had said and she tried to use it against me to break us up. I wish I could forgive her, but I know that my boyfriend cannot. I want a relationship with him. I love him, but I don't know how to forget about my friend. I can't believe this happened. She has changed. What do I do? I do I put this behind me and move on with my life? It has been bathering me since FEB.

2006-10-06 06:54:17 · 7 answers · asked by Dori 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

I did talk to her honestly about this and she denies it and I know for a fact she said it because she was the only one who knew.
What do you do about that? How to I move on? I want to.

2006-10-06 07:11:52 · update #1

7 answers

What is she trying to prove?? Why is she trying to break you and your boyfriend up? Does she like him or something? Maybe she wants him.
It's time to move on .....time to make better friends

2006-10-06 07:01:11 · answer #1 · answered by z z-king 2 · 0 0

Sounds lije you have a jealous best friend. I think the best thing to do is to try to talk it out with her but to be quite honest I don't think this is something that you can just let go. You can always forgive but you can't forget. It may be that you will have to keep her in the background now if you can't trust her.

2006-10-06 07:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by yomama h 2 · 0 0

You should discuss this with your friend and find out why she did what she did. Decide between the two of you what happened in your relationship and see if it can be resovled. Ask yourself if this one incident is worth losing a ten year long friendship. It should be up to you (not you boyfriend) whether you forgive your friend or not. Good luck.

2006-10-06 06:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by princesschubbybutt 3 · 0 0

Talk to her about what she did. If she can't apologize to you and your boyfriend then she is not your true friend...trust not only is important in a relationship it's also important in a friendship.

2006-10-06 06:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by jcgrier24 3 · 0 0

Its hard to believe that a true friend would hurt you, but it happens, Main reason is mostly jealousy. You got to move on or forgive.....

2006-10-06 07:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

She should have stayed out of your bussiness.She is probably jealous & that means that she hasnt been a real friend at least not any more,,Move on,,

2006-10-06 06:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hang out with her--just dont tell her any secrets anymore--some people cant help blabbing, just dosent make them bad people--just ---not to trustworthy--------------

2006-10-06 07:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0 0

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