says he is emotionally unavailable. I wasn't hoping for anything more than occasional fun since in my life everything seems quite temporary now anyway.
2006-10-06 07:01:08 · 14 answers · asked by dpegra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The underlying thought here is that the act of sex will cost you nothing. That is an impossibility. It is going to cost you either your heart breaking or your need to numb your emotions so that you don't become attached to this person.
In essence, you will be using each other. Why is that a problem? Because when you do finally find someone with whom you want to become emotionally attached, you will probably have a problem doing it. There is no such thing as "free love". It will cost you something.
One last thought: When 2 lay down, 1 gets up with feelings.
Good luck with this. Be wise. Don't live for the moment to the point that you sacrifice your future.
2006-10-06 07:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sad. You're screwing an emotionally unavailable man and that's fun for you? How sad. Don't you worry about AIDS or HIV or STD's or warts or herpes or getting pregnant? Don't you value your body or your feelings and emotions at all? I think you need a new hobby.
2006-10-06 14:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just described a booty call relationship. There is no emotionally attachment in this type of reason. Its ALL about the physical. I LOVE this type of relationship because I get what I want, when I want it with NO DRAMA.
2006-10-06 14:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're comfortable with just being f**k friends, then go for it and have fun! But it's harder then it looks. I've tried this with a friend and dispite how hard i tried to not get emotionaly involved, i did, and ended up getting hurt. But if you can do it, more power to you!
2006-10-06 14:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jane D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be unavailable, but how about you? What if you fall in love with him? Where will you be then?
He has been honest with you, be honest with yourself, because if this had not occurred to you, you would not be asking.
2006-10-06 14:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ruins the friendship every time and you will be looked at as the dog no offense try to stabilize your life with some permanency
2006-10-06 14:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by aldo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah im sorry to say but you need to get over him i was in that situation only it was my ex and i still loved him but i found out that all he wanted from me was sex and after we did what we did i lost all feelings for him...so yeah....have fun and good luck...
2006-10-06 14:04:24 · answer #7 · answered by KaKes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are a good fit for now. Just make sure he uses a condom due to HIV/AIDS. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-06 14:03:30 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good, no strings, no relationship, no headache, no controlling, you leave when you want to .
2006-10-06 14:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
booty call, plain and simple, dont ever expect more, he's telling you from the get go.
2006-10-06 14:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋