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I mean you really just wanted to have a friends with benifits relationship...but u fell in love...if so how is it now, or how did it end?

2006-10-06 06:58:50 · 16 answers · asked by ladyjno7 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

16 answers

No.

2006-10-06 07:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kenya 3 · 0 0

Short term relationship..
he will screw other girls and it ends.
“in love” : A temporary state of love. Can last up to 1 ½ years, but usually shorter. It is based on thirst of love, a constant need to be satisfied, but never is. Someone “in love” can never get enough and wants to be near the one they are in love with 24/7. It is a clouded state of mind.
As they say, “love is blind” the person “in love” will make decisions to please the one they are in love with even if it hurts them. At the time they do not even realize they are doing so. Only after the “in love” period is gone do they see what they have done. They do this due to the fear of losing the person and fearing losing the feelings they get while being with this person.

2006-10-06 07:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Life Coach 4 · 1 0

Absolutly!!! A girl and I hooked up for what we intended to be one night of ..... whatever ;). Anyways, one night turned into 1 week, which turned into 5 months. We became really close, but university ended for her, and she went back home and I never heard from her again... This was about 9 years ago

2006-10-06 07:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That is what both of us wanted(especially me) friends with benefits. How'd it turn out? Okay, it's 15 years later and 5 kids later. He's still my booty call!

2006-10-06 07:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by Babydoll 4 · 0 0

nope i dont like to feel like a a cheep toy

i mean come on you know your better than that you have to be if you fell in love. get some respect for yourself and go get the guy you deserve

2006-10-06 07:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 1 0

I've never slept with my friends. I couldn't see the benefit of being used for sex. You'll have a hard time convincing someone to "love you" after you've degraded yourself to simply a sex object (or benefit). I suppose you'll announce your love for this person and they'll either keep using you for sex and then say it "didn't work out" or end it with you right away.

2006-10-06 07:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Yes, it's happened a few times to me. One time it ended badly, the other he moved to a different city, problem solved.

2006-10-06 07:02:50 · answer #7 · answered by noambition 4 · 1 0

Thats how my ex and I were... almost got married too, then she just lost feelings. 2.5 years of a kick *** relationship though! Started out as mess-a-round buddies

2006-10-06 07:00:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

great my huband and i have been together for 6 years 3 on and off before that

2006-10-06 07:01:17 · answer #9 · answered by lala 2 · 1 0

well yes u could but u shouldn allow that... get him outa ur mind cuz .. i mean its prolly not even real lov ejust lust

2006-10-06 07:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by Viinna_ 2 · 1 0

I think every girl has done that

2006-10-06 07:00:35 · answer #11 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 1 0

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