Despite the fact that it's not legal, I just don't think it's right. He's an adult, she's too young, she shouldn't be thinking of serious relationships at 15, I know I wasn't!!!
What are your thoughts about it?
2006-10-06 07:27:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who am I kidding, kids these days have sex at 13 years old!!! :s
2006-10-06 07:29:38 · update #1
There are many people who think that teenagers can't feel love. This is true in some cases, but at the same time some adults don't honestly know what love is either. If the parents don't mind that they are seeing each other, then let them be. It's weird how age matters to alot of people when it involves younger couples, but when the same couple is older it doesn't seem to matter much. If two people care about each other, then they should get the chance to be together, it's not fair to them to keep them apart.
2006-10-06 07:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with that? there's only 3 years difference! I have had 16 when my man had 25, and we had a very mature relationship... You have a type of people who are mature with 14, and the ones who aren't with 54... Just because you haven't thought about it, id\t doesn't mean that no one should! Besides, you aren't her mom, leave them alone. She'll never gonna learn unless she burn herself. There is no easy way of learning the xpirience.
One hypothetical question: Guy is born on 6th October 1988. He is in love with 15 year old girl. So, today, their relationship is legal, but tomorrow it isn't because he will be 18?
2006-10-06 14:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Looda_Plavusha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all it is illegal. Once they've decided to be a criminal about it, what guideline can I offer that is going to get accross.
But, if they insist, I recommend the golden "half your age plus 7 rule". This works just about every time. 18 Year old should probably not be dating under 16 (18 / 2 = 9 + 7= 16).
2006-10-06 14:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by Mike C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not legal, but has that ever stopped a "guy"?
I think it depends on the girls parents. IF they approve of the guy, then they should already have a clue to what boys that age want.
The 15 yr. old girl is probably more mature than the 18 yr. old anyways. IT is too young, but what can we all do, unless the law can do something?
2006-10-06 14:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hope the 18 year old realizes that if he's having sex with her, and it's found out by authorities and he's charged with statutory rape, then for the rest of his life he will have to register as a sex offender wherever he moves. Does he want that label to follow him everywhere for the rest of his days? A lifetime is a very long time...
2006-10-06 14:55:05 · answer #5 · answered by Duende71 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not illegal for them to date. Man, you're probably going to be VERY controling of your children.............if you have any that is.
I don't mean to come across as rude, but it isn't a bad thing. There is just a 3 year difference, that's not much. He isn't an adult, and she isn't a child. Three years dosen't make somone an adult. I'm sorry, but it isn't your business anyway. If you don't like it then stay away from them. She isn't a child though. You need to think about it. I know a girl who got pregnant at 10, and knew what she was doing. Yes, 10 years old! But it happens everyday. But, once you hit 13, who cares who you date, as long as they treat you with respect. The couple that you know should stay together as long as they like, as long as they like/love each other. A 15 year old girl is ready for a relationship, a serious one. Maybe you don't have a boyfriend, that's why you're mad. I don't know, but you need to stop putting your nose in their business.
2006-10-06 14:39:45 · answer #6 · answered by Yoshi 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are 2 answers for your question ..
1) No Its not wrong
If the guy loves her for who she is not for sex, there is absulotely nothin wrong at all.. and you people are very wrong.. 15 year olds HAVE FEELINGS.. True love feelings..
2) Yes It is..
The guy wants to have sex with her 80%
The guy wants her love 20%..
You see the difference? There is a huge chance of him wanting her for sex but she is old enough to know that isn't she? Even my nephew who is 13 knowz that.. and she doesn't ?
2006-10-06 14:38:36 · answer #7 · answered by Kissss_My_Asss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not illegal for them to date. It's illegal for them to have sex. Teenagers should not be having sex - not even at 18.
I know it seems terribly old-fashioned, but people used to wait until they were married (or at least dating someone seriously for a year or so).
Do you know that this guy is a bad influence? Will he pressure her to have sex with him? Is she sleeping around already?
There are too many unanswered questions to give you an opinion about this specific situation.
2006-10-06 14:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by FozzieBear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree 15 and 18 are worlds aprart. However, if I had a kid I think I'd let them date if I knew they weren't sexually activite and they weren't getting in too serious. Just getting to know someone is okay but when you get into too deep it is bad for both parties.
2006-10-06 14:32:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to contact her parents and let them know what is going on. If they are ok with it and they don't see a problem then ... things get tough.
you need to find out if they are having sex. If they are then you need to go to the police. it is rape at her age and he needs to be hel accountable for his actions. i would then contact CPS (child protective services) and tell them you have filed a complaint with the police and they need to follow up and get her out of that house!
BTW I don't care what anyone says.. 18 year old guys ARE looking to have sex and will try ANYthing to get it!!!!!
2006-10-06 14:32:25 · answer #10 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋