i'm leaving in three days for another city for my stuydies and will be back next july.i am very sad but i have to leave my girlfriend here, as she studies here. i will meet her for one last time on sunday before i go. i dont know how to react or what to say to her. we really love each other and i want to come back to her. how do i say goodbye without being a CRY BABY???i cannot see her cry on my shoulder.
2006-10-06 07:49:41 · 18 answers · asked by loving_u_4ever_n_always 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her there's no "good" in "goodbye - and that you're not SAYING goodbye, you're just leaving for a bit and coming back. Reassure her that you're going to be keeping in touch and that this might just make your relationship stronger and your reunion all the sweeter. Good luck bro.
2006-10-06 07:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Ma'êšeeonáhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I thin she difinitely will cr on your shoulder. Just try to calm her and tell her you will come back soon, and stay in contact through phone mail and chat (even vice chat if possible). Of course it is no the best way but it would b something to at least be able to talk together while you are away. You can always eet during holidays. If you really lve her very much, just propose her before leaving, and then you will have you wedding to look forward to in the next holidays.
Best of Luck, you will see, this time of separation will pass soon an then you will be together forever
2006-10-07 04:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
id plan for something fun and take a lot of pictures with each other so that u can look back to them and remember that last day u spent together until u come back in july. give her a promise ring and tell her u will stay true to her while u are away and that u expect the same from her. promise to write or call or email her and ask her to do the same. then towards the end of the day take her to a romantic dinner and shed a few tears as u let her know how much she means to u and how dearly u will miss her. she will be so touched.
2006-10-06 17:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by mayami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they say that a love that is far away is a love that won't last how do you know that once you leave and your over there you start getting lonely and want to be with someone else or the same might happen to her. If i was you i would not be with her anymore i would just move on but if you think you can handle not playing her which i doubt it just stay with her and see how everything comes out.
2006-10-06 08:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you are going to get your education while she gets hers as well, but that you would like to try and keep the love alive and that you promise to come back in July and that you will still love her while you are gone. If you cry, its ok, love sometimes makes us cry, its the emotions that we have inside.
Good luck, I feel so bad for you both!
2006-10-06 07:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always nice to see nice guys like you out there who truly love their partner. Tell her that you will call and sms her as often as you can. You should cry your heart out now, so that on that day, it will not be as bad. Been there, done that, trust me. Tell her you love her, and that you will come back for holidays ;)
2006-10-06 07:54:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is love ...it will get strengthen in your absence ... u r going only to study not for war...u can chat with her right .. so do ur best in studies ...tell her that u love her so much and to take care of me .. sunday should not be a scene day remember all the best for ur life and study specially love
2006-10-06 07:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by tamanaahamed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend there is no good bye in true LOVE...........
"Aapke khayalo se fursat nahi milti, hume ek pal ko bhi rahat nahi milti.... Mil to jata hai is duniya mein sab kuch bus ek aapka saath ho aaisi kismat nahi milti....."
best of luck
Ashi
2006-10-07 09:52:17 · answer #8 · answered by Ashish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain her the situation... if she really loves u, then even god can't huddle her to cry on your shoulders... if it really happens, then u r the lucciest person to get a true girl simply of yours...
2006-10-06 19:24:35 · answer #9 · answered by ec2reachram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh damn... ... ...girls, make a note of this...we hate to see you cry.
Anywho, telling her may be the best thing to do, sit down with her and tell her, if she cries...ask her what she wants you to do...if she asks you to leave...then leave...if she asks you to kill yourself...don't...if she asks you to stay and comfort her...do it...that the best i can come up with
2006-10-06 07:56:12 · answer #10 · answered by WW2 Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋