She smokes,has sex,talks dirty,and much more.How do I help her?I tried telling someone but it didn't help,and her dad doesn't seem to care.
2006-10-06 07:49:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell the sideeffects of these stuff tell her what would happen in her future , sorry my friend but its a hard question i wont excpect alot of people answerin this question
2006-10-06 07:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said the problem...her dad doesnt care...therein lies the problem for your friend. She has no guidance so she will continue to get into things and suffer the consequences of her actions...my advice for you is to find a new friend because if you continue to hang out with this one you will soon be in as much trouble as she will....is that what you want? You wont be able to change her, it was up to her parents to put her on the right path and they showed her the wrong one instead...it will take more than you to straighten her out.
2006-10-06 14:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by tpoke24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunni.. 2 solutions for this problem.. Wanna know? Read along..
1) Try to convince her with really good examples.. ( But this isn't a great idea )
2) Stay away from her as far as you can.. sooner or later she'll do something bad to you.. she'll even murder you.. she smokes.. she'll try to make u smoke.. she'll try to do sex with others.. and she'll make you like her.. Good people turn to BAd.. BAD NVR turn to Good.. so forget you even met her..! ( This is what you should really do.. Number 1 isn't a great idea Number 2 is what u shud do ) and AM realy serious stay away as far as u can.. n dont forget to ask ur mom about this
2006-10-06 14:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kissss_My_Asss 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that you really want to be her friend but feel that if she persists in bad behavior that yall can't be friends. you don't want to be in the wrong place at the wrong time and get in trouble. If she's young enough talk to a school counselor or something otherwise just wish for the best
2006-10-06 14:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by a.rose19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about it, but if her father doesn't care she probably feels neglected so be there for her when she relizes she made a mistake! Untill then make sure to tell talk to her first bc if you just went and told somebody she will get mad and feel betrayed... Good Luck~
2006-10-06 14:55:35 · answer #5 · answered by S.D.V. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, help her! she is your friend, if she is going in the wrong direction, she has only you to show her the right path. u can't just leave her! u need to show her wat she's doing is bad. if u leave her and wash your hands, and years later u find out that she is dead or living in the street, i dont think u would be able to look away from it! u'll be like "i couldn't helped her.. but didn't. i had the chance, but i turned my back on her" don't turn your back on her and don't look away! help her, talk to her, tell the teachers in skool, or somebody else who u trust. don't leave her behind
2006-10-06 14:56:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to sit her down and talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2006-10-06 14:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Shalla 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone. tell her how you feel about her behavior, but then let it go. she'll figure out her own path in time. she needs to learn through her own mistakes.
2006-10-06 14:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by *autumn*rustle* 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as someone who enoys those things im gonna have to say
just let it be, man.
2006-10-06 15:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming she is an adult...YOU can not change her ways. THis is something she has to do for herself IN/ON her time.....not yours or anyone elses.
2006-10-06 14:56:02 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋