"I miss you" or "I want you" Why cant guys just say whats on your minds?
2006-10-06 08:26:31 · 20 answers · asked by marie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i miss u,i want u.& i even luv u! now see that wasnt so bad was it?
2006-10-06 08:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by woody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but i feel you. But i'm glad that i've only had one guy like that the rest of the guys that i had gone out with in the past were very sweet and would always say "i luv you" i miss you..etc
But some are too shy to tell you how they really feel..and others dont feel it and so they dont say it.
2006-10-06 15:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Men...as socioty has placed them have problems with expressing emotion!!! Having assumed the dominant role, emotion in viewed as weakness in the eyes of men...if you ge close enough to a guy and show him that YOU specifically are not a threat... in the sense that you won't make fun of him, you'll be able to coax it outta him...just keep trying ;)
2006-10-06 15:32:42 · answer #3 · answered by Katelyn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that its hard its just dont want to feel rejection for a guy to get rejected by a woman makes us feel bad or when saying I love you and dont hear it back it really gets our confidence.
2006-10-06 15:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be against my own sex, but some men are STUPID and dont know whats the right thing to do. Also, if anyone could help with my question in love I would be very gratefull, search 'grand gesture' or click my name for more details.
2006-10-06 15:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by porta_custos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason we don`t say what`s on our minds is because it would get us slapped.Remember what we have on our minds every 7 seconds.
2006-10-06 15:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to sound like a girl in any way, shape, or form. They think it makes them less masculine. Especially if they are around their buddies. But in general most guys have trouble expressing themselves.
2006-10-06 15:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by GT Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are very ego driven so saying things like that to them makes them whimps or something. You know they have to be macho all the time
2006-10-06 15:30:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do. If your guys isn't saying it its because he doesn't miss you and doesn't want you. Every single one of my bf's would say both things to me.
2006-10-06 15:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz they are afraid to say what they think for fear of getting laughed at! well the 1st two my bf tells me all the time. Sometimes thou...he b telling EVERYTHING thats on his mind so maybe you are lucky 4 dat :P
2006-10-06 15:29:04 · answer #10 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say it all the time. I do miss her. I do want her, bad!
2006-10-06 15:29:49 · answer #11 · answered by OTNEB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋