Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

I really like this guy and started emailing him and eventually got him to ask me out. I was estatic. During our first date, I felt a lot of chemistry and we started making out and I had sex with him on the first date which I normally don't do. But a few days passed and he never called back and whenever I call to ask him why I don't hear from him, he seems so cold and he doesn't want to talk. Does anyone know what went wrong?

2006-10-06 09:11:21 · 18 answers · asked by josie_c4t 1 in Singles & Dating

Two months ago, when I first confronted my wife with emails I found, she ripped up the printed copies immediately! She then told me, the "he was a friend" and she had gone over the top with flirtation evident in the emails I found. She is very tight lipped about it and when I bring it up she says that I need to let it go, to move on. But I have found other evidence that concerns me. Lyrics written in the middle of the ?affair? suggesting she might love someone but had too much to lose. etc...Since i caught her, she has had supposedly NO contact with him, like that was normal for their relationship. The emails were many, and she deleted all her emails aferward.
She even has the number to his 2nd home on her cell. Friends.
To me, friendships do not end on a dime...affairs. I need to know the truth.. no details..just the truth...I will not play second fiddle!

Would you feel the same? Do you think she should be more honest in light of the circumstances?

2006-10-06 09:09:18 · 36 answers · asked by Sandy S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 09:09:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 09:08:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he dont kiss me, dont make-love 2 me, dont hold me, works all the time and when hes not working, hes 2 his moms or brothers house. he dont smile at me, never has anything nice 2 say about me, & when i ask him why does he treat me this way he tells me i'm insecure! makes fat commets towards me when i eat (i've had 2 kids by him by the way). when i cry he tells me hes sick of me whinning and 2 just deal with attitude or get the f--- out. he tells me he never claimed 2 b a gentleman. he dont even sit by me. dont take me out, dont call me & hes even told me 2 leave him alone a couple of times when i've tried 2 talk 2 him bout this! he came home from work the other night(late by the way), took his shirt off & washed it. hes never done that b/f(we been together 7 years).?

2006-10-06 09:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by leekee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 09:07:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 09:06:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who in world is with their first love and for how long and is there anyone out there married your first love how was it?

2006-10-06 09:06:37 · 4 answers · asked by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 in Weddings

i am currently in iraq, with the army. my bf back home is caring for our three year old daughter. i have met two very wonderful guys here. i never want to hurt anyone, but i am seriously falling for one of the ones here in iraq. the major problem is the one i am falling for is from a foriegn country (the republic of georgia). he says he loves me. i dont know what to think..... especially since my bf in the states get very cruel with his words when he talks to me. the other guy here is also georgian, but i only want his friendship and he keeps telling me he is in love with me. i dont want to hurt him, but i may have to.....

2006-10-06 09:05:56 · 12 answers · asked by dindonelle 2 in Singles & Dating

He dont even look my way when it comes to sex it has been so long I feel its about to end Im hurting and wanting to be close to him when i ask he says he loves me if so why dont he want to make love to me dont guys dream of a sexually active woman..

2006-10-06 09:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Need psychological views (facts), scientific views (facts), christian views and others.

2006-10-06 09:04:49 · 3 answers · asked by windowla 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you like country music? Ride a Harley? Like to spend time with a nice and beautiful women,get to know each other and see what happens?

2006-10-06 09:04:43 · 4 answers · asked by hdredrose 1 in Singles & Dating

She goes on myspace and tells about how she is misunderstood & how her family is unsupportive of her & judgemental but she is LAZY, dropped out of school, is 20 yrs old & weighs atleast 400 lbs and stays on the internet all day. Should I just cut her out of my life for good or keep being nice to her for the sake of family unity??

2006-10-06 09:03:45 · 10 answers · asked by Weeber 2 in Family

2006-10-06 09:03:38 · 20 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

Boys, what's the most important feature a girl must have to catch you?

2006-10-06 09:03:08 · 4 answers · asked by keen 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a guy friend who is really nice and I think he has a crush on me but I really don't know whether or not it would be a good idea to date him. I've been having a hard time getting over this other guy, and the more I think on it, the more I seem to fall for this friend of mine. Is it a good idea to take it to the next step? I don't want to end up screwing up a good friendship in the end.

2006-10-06 09:03:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 09:02:27 · 16 answers · asked by ANGELa 3 in Weddings

you want to hear and then once they get what they want its all over. Why?

2006-10-06 09:01:53 · 21 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok-So I think I'm going to contact the man who might be my father-who Ive never met, never even seen a picture of, who might not even be aware of the fact that I exsist. All I have to go by is a name-age range, and last city and state he lived in, which has led me to one man, who I plan on writting a letter to.My biggest worry is that this might not even be the right guy-I can't even think of the possibilities that he could deny me-though I know it's huge!I'm planning on making it very clear I want nothing out of him (I'm 21),except maybe a pictureand some family history, and to knwo if I have any bro's or sis's.I don't want to ruin anyone's life.I would love a relationship-but I know not to hold my breathe.I just don't know what to write in a letter that could possibly be going to some random man-do I include a picture?Help please!I have no other way of finding him!!!

2006-10-06 09:01:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my girl is about to open a daycare with no kids. she is going through the process as we speak. what i want to know is how fast will she make money off her day care. she clam she can get put on a gov list for women in need for daycare in her area "is that ture". will she really make money that quick once she get her license

2006-10-06 09:01:31 · 4 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The past includes adultry which of course is not good, but 3 years past.

2006-10-06 09:01:22 · 19 answers · asked by stoneybrook231 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true the grils from the U.K. don`t like black men from the U.S.A. ?

2006-10-06 09:01:06 · 26 answers · asked by Step 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm having a bad day.

2006-10-06 09:00:41 · 9 answers · asked by S K 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Please, i need help. I am 21 years old and have been dating this guy (23) for 2.5 years. I am totally in love with him, but sometimes i wish i could change him. I wish I could turn him into a genuinly "nice" guy. His biggest deal is that he lies to me, but at the same time he could be the GREATEST guy ever. I love him cuz he takes me out, spends a lot of time with me, and makes me laugh. I am in grad school so the two days ago I had midterms and i told him he couldn't come over the nite before because I needed to study (i told him this weeks ago). He comes over to my apartment cuz he needs to use my internet (his apt doesn't have it) and i said that he needed to go cuz i need to study. He ended up having like a temper tantrum, ripped up papers, threw a pillow at me, and the next day he though I needed to appologise, not him for kicking him out. But i do love him, and im at the point that I want to get married soon. What should i do? I don't think I can imagine myself w/o him

2006-10-06 08:59:08 · 18 answers · asked by chloe114 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 08:57:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My man and I have been together for a year this upcoming wednesday. We have had a baby, we live together, we are very happy, but he has never said that he loves me. He acts like he does and he does things that show me he does but how do I get him to actually say that he loves me. He was really hurt in the past by one of his ex's. She did him really wrong. He's never had a real stable life either he has moved around a lot and he was kinda abandoned by his mom when he was 15. She didn't really abandon him it was more like they were moving and she gave him the choice to eiter go with them or stay. And he stayed but had no where to go. And now he has a very stable life with me and our daughter but he won't say he loves me. How do I get him to do it? PLEASE HELP.

2006-10-06 08:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by Kimberly S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this one guy i like but i dont know how i can talk to him without being shy.what do i say????

2006-10-06 08:56:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you like nibbled on to melt.

2006-10-06 08:56:31 · 8 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a feeling that my bf and i are going to start having sex in a little while and i just want to know what to expect my first time. any advice?

2006-10-06 08:56:05 · 8 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Singles & Dating

just curious

2006-10-06 08:56:05 · 9 answers · asked by angelkisses_2032 1 in Singles & Dating