Family & Relationships - 6 October 2006

2006-10-06 09:26:44 · 4 answers · asked by arpalu69 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been living together for 6 months and he wont help me finish moving stuff in and going through stuff, because we just got a new apartment. I can lift heavy objects and he wont through his trash away, we have gotten into so many arguments over it. My mom came over and helped me clean up the living room, and it was trashed by the next evening. All he ever does is work and come home and play Diablo, which is a PC game. I almost left because of this. I dont know what to do...I'm not his maid nor his mother.

2006-10-06 09:26:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 09:26:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-10-06 09:25:58 · 27 answers · asked by ANGELa 3 in Weddings

I've been having a difficult time lately, and the problems between my husband are adding up. We got married because I was pregnant, and I don't think we were ever in love with each other.

We have been married for 6 years, and we try to make things work. I am very committed to my spouse and I love him... but there's a lack of a spark... both emotionally and sexually between us.

Recently, I have come to the conclusion, that I think maybe it's not the best idea to stay together just because we have a child. I notice that the both of us are increasingly unhappy.

We have tried marital therapy, and it worked for a while, but it didn't solve the "chemistry" problem... as we call it. We have open communication, and aside from this we get along well.

I don't know what to do. I don't WANT to leave him, but I am not happy with him either.

Any suggestions?

2006-10-06 09:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by Willalee 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I need them both in my life, just not at the same time. I love my wife's cooking, and my ex-lover knows things about me that I don't want my wife to find out about.

2006-10-06 09:25:51 · 22 answers · asked by S K 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 09:25:24 · 19 answers · asked by fluffychr 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 09:24:26 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My boyfriend cheated on me, so I kicked him in the balls. As a result he lost a testicle!!! The kick was not that hard, I don’t know what happened! I feel so ashamed and guilty, I feel sick to my stomach. He will not press charges, but he does not want to see me again. He slept with a girl at a party because he was too drunk, he usually doesn’t drink. Will he ever forgive me? Anyone here had a similar experience? What can I do???

2006-10-06 09:24:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you've met the most amazing man/woman, their personality is fantastic! what would you prefer them to look like?

2006-10-06 09:24:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so my BF, Jake and I have been in this ongoing fight ever since
i slapped him across the because he pulled a chair out from underneth me and I flashed the whole school. He is giving every one different answers on if we are still together, like my friend allison asked him if he would let me wear his football jersey and he said i would if she asked me. But then my friend Erica went up to him and she asked if he still had feelings for me and he said no then someone else else asked him the same ? and he said yes i like her!!!! I'm confused, is he doing this to get on my nerves? Or did i slap alll the sense out of him? Please guys tell me why he is doing this. I said i was sorry, and he has forgivin me we talk every day in homeroom! But why is he giving me all this stuff about likeing me and not liking me?

2006-10-06 09:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by catlover092 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and he is my friend but I want him to like-like me! HELP!

2006-10-06 09:23:17 · 6 answers · asked by woop woop 3 in Friends

I have 2 kids,i have no relationship with my father but my eldest child asks about him a lot,i'm wondering if i should take them to visit him? The thing is i have severed my ties with him a long long time ago & have no wish for a relationship with him for myself. I feel sorry for my kids as they used to have a relationship with their grandfather on their fathers side but their dad doesn't really play a part in their lives these days & his parents have separated so they really can't see him anymore..

Any suggestions for me??? I'm really stuck on this...

2006-10-06 09:22:59 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i know quite a bit bout him but not too much and hes all i think about. i dont know if im in love with him or just lusting after him

2006-10-06 09:22:45 · 11 answers · asked by thisishowibounce 1 in Singles & Dating

I have asked her to tell me what she likes. She says she doesn't know

2006-10-06 09:22:12 · 23 answers · asked by alknowing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-06 09:22:06 · 4 answers · asked by yemendreamdancer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We both wanted children and when we found out my wife could not bear a child to term we tried everything except adoption as my wife di not want to adopt. Since then I kept telling my self it would be OK. In the last year many other things have been happening between us and the idea of children has resurfaced for me. I feel as though I have changed my mind about it being OK. I really feel like I want a child of my own. In the beginning I would have been willing to adopt but, I think I feel differently about that now also. This is kind of a weird question coming from a man but, I don't feel like I have stopped loving my wife although things have been in kind of a downward spiral. I think it is more the result of my ambivalence due to the children issue. Surrogacy is way out of our league financially. Unfortunately I don't think I will feel satisfied in life if I don't take a good chance at being a father. I know that I may still fail but I will have taken my chances.

2006-10-06 09:21:57 · 30 answers · asked by D v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She wants to move to PA because things arent working out with her parents that she currently living with here in Ohio, apparently her parents told her to move out on her birthday because she dont help arond the house or with her brothers work and stuff, which is lies because i know for a fact she does, what should I do

2006-10-06 09:20:01 · 3 answers · asked by phirewolf04 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 09:19:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 09:18:33 · 6 answers · asked by DEANNAV 1 in Marriage & Divorce

pop tart this morning, but feel realy bad about it now. She burst into tears, but I ate it anyway. What can I do to make it up to her???

Mr Happy
:o)

2006-10-06 09:17:40 · 12 answers · asked by hagtagg 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-06 09:16:10 · 23 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

I called my fiance earlier when his plane was about to take off, and he was chatting/joking with a girl next to him, which was totally fine
until I told him to just call me when he landed, wished him a good flight and told him "I LOVE YOU"...he said peace out trying to avoid saying it but I was wasn't sure he heard me...so again I said, "I LOVE YOU"..he said "yeah, bye"...at that point I was a little pissed off and told him I LOVE YOU one last time, expecting some kind of loving response, and he just hung up. He'll say I love you when he's out with his friends, he says I love you when he's usually around strangers because we are engaged and that's what you do when you love someone enough to be engaged to them, right?! Do you think he was completely avoiding saying I LOVE YOU back because of whoever that girl was that is sitting next to him?What should I tell him when he calls?Do you think he was being a jerk, or am I overreacting?What does this all mean?Am I wrong? Help!

2006-10-06 09:15:42 · 23 answers · asked by ac 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-06 09:15:16 · 16 answers · asked by Sans Sucre 2 in Singles & Dating

I got out of a horrid marriage this year( we were seperated for almost two years before divorce finalized). My new guy is really great!! We have been together for alittle over a year and we are sooooo happy. Now he is talking marriage and I am unsure if I am ready. He said he will wait but will I ever be ready is my concern. What should I do???? I prefer suggestions and commentary from women or men in this situation or a similar situation. Hell, any idea would be helpful right now.

2006-10-06 09:14:41 · 11 answers · asked by lady_lucktyree 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hello,
I think someone is playing a prank on me... I can not post a pic here, but i think someone using the name and yahoo messenger of alex feiro from Roswell, new mexico is trying to play games. If you know this name ..please contact me.I NEED to find him and let him knowsomeone is trying to use his identity. He is about 24 years old. an electrician (supposedly). If you are out there alex feiro..email me asap!

2006-10-06 09:14:10 · 1 answers · asked by dynamitewoman 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm like Cold Feet... its like, i fear that i might cheat again and if i get caught, i'd broke a heart again... what should i do?

2006-10-06 09:13:54 · 7 answers · asked by Squall_22 3 in Singles & Dating

....if Laws were enacted making such unions legal?

This is a serious question; it is not meant as a joke. If you don't know the answer, please do not post insulting answers. And no, I am not Gay however, I believe there are many people, myself included, who do not understand the legal issues (wills, property, children, etc) which would result if Gays were allowed to
marry..legally. Or, if legalized, if it would simply mirror the same issues as we find in a heterosexual marriage.
Thank you.

2006-10-06 09:13:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When my ex-mistress posted the pictures, she included my family XMAS picture that I put in her Christmas card.

2006-10-06 09:12:31 · 21 answers · asked by S K 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I wonder what would happen if girls quit settling for loser guys. Would girls have the resolve to require more effort of guys? Would guys step up and rise to the challenge? How much better would relationships be if we could all do this?

2006-10-06 09:11:57 · 21 answers · asked by BaseballGrrl 6 in Singles & Dating