Ok so my BF, Jake and I have been in this ongoing fight ever since
i slapped him across the because he pulled a chair out from underneth me and I flashed the whole school. He is giving every one different answers on if we are still together, like my friend allison asked him if he would let me wear his football jersey and he said i would if she asked me. But then my friend Erica went up to him and she asked if he still had feelings for me and he said no then someone else else asked him the same ? and he said yes i like her!!!! I'm confused, is he doing this to get on my nerves? Or did i slap alll the sense out of him? Please guys tell me why he is doing this. I said i was sorry, and he has forgivin me we talk every day in homeroom! But why is he giving me all this stuff about likeing me and not liking me?
2006-10-06 09:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by catlover092 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just grow up!
Drop the problems.
Get on with your life.
2006-10-06 10:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off he is doing this because he is a jock and that is typical behavior for a jock.
Next You are still really young to be dealing with a jerky boyfriend. How you react to him now, will set the stage for the rest of your life and futher relationships. If you are strong and stand up to him and tell him that he cannot treat you like that, then it will make it easier next time. Real men pull the chair out for you to sit in and then scoot it in for you. Real Men don't pull the chair out from under you and then get sick thrills when the whole school sees your underware. Real Men would be completely emabarresed by that. He is acting like a selfish immature little boy.
My advice to you is to be done with him. It will hurt alot, and it won't be easy seeing him at school and at the football games and such. but in time it will get better. Then as long as you are in High school, just be friends with guys. No more serious relationships- you are way too young for that. If you can be good friends with guys now, that will help you learn to sit back and observe their behavior. You can watch how they treat other people particularly women, how they treat their mothers and sisters are a good indication of how they respect women. Just being friends will help you to learn and decide which kind of guys you like and which kind you don't. Then when you are an adult (in your 20's) you will be more able to get married to a winderful man who treats you right. I think that casual dating in high school is fine, but never serious dating. You are still young and figuring out life, take your time and observe and learn and decide what you want from life, before you commit yourself to one boy.
2006-10-06 16:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confuse..but why let other people do all the asking when you can get a straight and an honest answer from him. When you ask people to do that, they tend to exaggerate or omit stuff...so do it yourself that way if he likes/dislikes you, you can move on and deal with it.
2006-10-06 16:28:27 · answer #3 · answered by wittlewabbit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an idiot but if like him then fine: talk to him and ask him whats going on. and ask some of his friends what he said. if you dont like the answer then dump him. or at the very least have him clear things up so you know where you stand.
2006-10-06 16:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by evil Hesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is stupid. Dump him and stop playing his stupid game!! YOU are sorry?? He could have seriously hurt you. Not to mention, embarrassing you in front of everyone. He sounds like a real loser. Get rid of him!! YOU sound like one of those weak girls that will put up with anything.
2006-10-06 16:26:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's not giving YOU all this stuff about liking or not liking you. He's giving your friends random answers.
If you want to know, ask him. Don't depend on your friends to get information for you.
2006-10-06 16:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by txgirl_2_98 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's immature (as most high school boys are). Let him go and move on with your life.
2006-10-06 16:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe he was around some of his friends that possibly told him to break up with you when erica asked him. he was probably just under pressure
2006-10-06 16:27:28 · answer #8 · answered by Caylee 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he is having mixed feelings. Talk to him and ask him why. Also, another thing to keep in mind is to ask him if there is anything that can be changed.
2006-10-06 16:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
omg Becky
2006-10-06 16:26:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋