My boyfriend cheated on me, so I kicked him in the balls. As a result he lost a testicle!!! The kick was not that hard, I don’t know what happened! I feel so ashamed and guilty, I feel sick to my stomach. He will not press charges, but he does not want to see me again. He slept with a girl at a party because he was too drunk, he usually doesn’t drink. Will he ever forgive me? Anyone here had a similar experience? What can I do???
2006-10-06 09:24:23 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hope you go to hell. thats one thing you DONT do to a guy no matter how much he hurts you. no one deserves that kind of pain unless their trying to rape you or kill you. and he had the decency to tell you and your gunna go ahead and do that? ew.
2006-10-06 09:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
OUCH! It doesn't matter if YOU think the kick wasn't very hard it doesn't take much to hurt. But there are 2 guilty parties here, you and him. Being drunk is no excuse for cheating on you. But wouldn't a slap on the face and a goodbye do the same job without the injury?
2006-10-06 09:31:19 · answer #2 · answered by loanplus1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think kicking him in the balls is a little extreme. I think you need to learn to think before you take action. Sometimes we are so hurt by our men that we want them to feel the SAME pain we do. But physcially hurting him will not work. I don't think he will want to go with you again, but he will forgive you as you have shown us above by not pressing charges. Your best thing to do is to do what he asked of you, if he does not want to see you don't try to intrude upon his privacy. And from what you told us it sounds like it was a mistake because he was totally drunk. I think he knows that you are truely sorry for what you have done. Just don't make the same mistake in the future.
2006-10-06 09:37:16 · answer #3 · answered by vhat40 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw! Thats really sad. I hope he's ok. All you can really do is ask for his forgiveness. You can't make him talk to you. Hopefully time will allow him to heal. But imagine someone ruining your body like you did his. I know he cheated, but I don't think he expected to lose a testicle because of it. But on the other hand, maybe he won't do that to another woman again. Good luck
2006-10-06 09:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did he have to have it surgicaly removed or did your kick just pop it back up into his abdomen? He could very well be making way more out of it just to make you feel bad so he can doesn't have to deal with the rudeness of his own actions...oh please if he was THAT drunk he wouldn't be able to copulate...drunks can rarely hold a woody for the time it takes - it was likely either really gross and sloppy for the other girl or he's outright lying and knew exactly what he was doing and only had a couple of drinks!
It is understandable to lash out in such a fashion even if you didn't mean to do it so hard - it really doesn't take that much effort to push a man's testes out of the ball sac and into his gut...they can push them back out again!
Generally though it is frowned upon to kick anyone in the genitals. You don't need his forgiveness - notice HE did a bad bad thing and made YOU feel guilty about it...that is a sure sign that he is not worth your time.
Walk away and forget this loser.
Gina Smile - really? you wish she goes to hell for this little accident that she feels sick and ashamed over...well aren't you sweet...bet you are a regular saint. God just loves those who condemn others in his name...see you in church with the rest of the sinners
2006-10-06 09:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by Lee 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
are u sure he is telling the truth
the chance of losing a testicle from one kick is very remote
he (and you) would have to be extremely unlucky
guys get nailed in the nads all the time and only a small percentage ever need surgery - and then usually because it was serious trauma from a car or industrial accident or assualt with a weapon
either you are pulling ours or he is pulling yours!!!
2006-10-08 10:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
all you can do is be thankful he isn't pressing charges. that would keep you from getting a good job. be understanding that he doesn't want to talk to you anymore. put yourself in his shoes. what if a guy punched you in the breast and they had to cut it off...would you want to see that guy ever again???? i know you're feeling guilty for what happened so just send him a get well soon card and tell him you're sorry but then leave him alone you don't want him to get you for stalking
2006-10-06 09:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by lynne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I think that bodily harm is not the answer. I have to chuckle at it, at best he will not drink like that again and if he is smart he will never cheat on anyone again. You just feel guilty because you still have feelings for him and you caused him harm it will pass. Apologize and let that be that. The next time he goes to do something stupid he will think twice and probably not do it.
2006-10-06 09:27:57 · answer #8 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good for him, that will show him. But dam losing a testicle, I don't know about forgiving you.
Anyways you don't want to be with a person who cheats so don't sweat it and keep on moving.
2006-10-06 09:32:35 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy PuertoRican Lady 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your Boyfriends dumb. I would sue your *** until you had to eat Top Ramen for the rest of your life. I would move to another country, cause someone is goinig to convince him to sue you.
Thats just me though, I prefer to keep both my nuts and not have some phyco girl kick me. :)
2006-10-06 09:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he lost a testicle from a kick... Well, natural selection was about to take him out of the picture anyway. He had it coming.
2006-10-06 09:26:19 · answer #11 · answered by Viking Chicken 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋