I have a guy friend who is really nice and I think he has a crush on me but I really don't know whether or not it would be a good idea to date him. I've been having a hard time getting over this other guy, and the more I think on it, the more I seem to fall for this friend of mine. Is it a good idea to take it to the next step? I don't want to end up screwing up a good friendship in the end.
2006-10-06 09:03:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think dating someone that you are friends with can be a good idea, if the chemestry is there without trying to foce it. Try to kiss him and if you feel nothing say it was a mistake if something happens then right on! Good luck.
2006-10-06 09:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by curious caucasian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a very hard time getting over my first love. One day I met a cute guy at the beach, and fell madly in love with him. It didn't last too long, but it sure helped me get over my first love. Decide for yourself what you think is best for you at this point in time: to remain at the friends only level, or take a chance that this could be a really great relationship as both friends and lovers.
2006-10-06 16:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in a similar situation. It is really hard for me to tell my friend how much I really like him and the possibility of taking it to another level. To date, I have not said a word int he hopes that it may work itself out. I agree with you, I don't want to ruin the friendship if it does not work out but it is hard not to tell him how I feel. I am contemplating on telling him when we are alone and are able to talk it through to see if we can in fact take it to another level. I think you should test the waters to see how he would feel but be cautious in how you tell him. Good Luck!
2006-10-06 16:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about dating anyone until you have found you again. Sounds like your still lost with the other guy. Once you are comfortable being single again then think about asking your friend out. I think it is a great idea to date someone who you respect and like already. Your halfway to a great relationship already.
2006-10-06 16:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by James C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl if you like him follow your heart. Its good that you were friends first. Possibilities are it can only get better.
2006-10-06 16:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm telling ya, the leap from friend to girlfriend almost never works...it will feel awkward and just wrong.
2006-10-06 16:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋