he dont kiss me, dont make-love 2 me, dont hold me, works all the time and when hes not working, hes 2 his moms or brothers house. he dont smile at me, never has anything nice 2 say about me, & when i ask him why does he treat me this way he tells me i'm insecure! makes fat commets towards me when i eat (i've had 2 kids by him by the way). when i cry he tells me hes sick of me whinning and 2 just deal with attitude or get the f--- out. he tells me he never claimed 2 b a gentleman. he dont even sit by me. dont take me out, dont call me & hes even told me 2 leave him alone a couple of times when i've tried 2 talk 2 him bout this! he came home from work the other night(late by the way), took his shirt off & washed it. hes never done that b/f(we been together 7 years).?
2006-10-06 09:07:32 · 9 answers · asked by leekee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i don't think you need advice for this one. He doesn't want you and maybe you let yourself go over the years. Look at pictures of you when you were happy and then look at you now. If you see a difference, then maybe you just aren't attractive to him anymore. You need to leave him. No one deserves that kind of treatment. You are too good for that. Take your kids and get out. And that washing the shirt thing, I think you already know what he's been doin, creepin. Just get out, you are a beautiful person and you don't need him. Find someone who will appreciate you more.
2006-10-06 09:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by lolly679 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to be honest with u, i think he is cheating on u!! i the only reason i know that it's true b/c my dad just did this to my mom about 2 weeks ago. anyways u dont need someone who is going to make fun of u and put u down. there are so many other guys out there who will like u for being who u are. just leave him dont call him and he will realize what he lost!!! u sound like a really person and u dont need someone like ur man. or when he comes home the way he talk's to u talk to him back. if ur not going to leave him then at least defend ur self!! best of luck to u
2006-10-06 09:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sad that a woman will let herself be walked all over like this for years and years. Hello, wake up, he's a jerk. Go to the bank, get out half the money, and move out. He doesn't want you and you are never going to change that. Who cares if he is cheating or not. Get away.
2006-10-06 09:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh my, i dont think it should have taken you seven years to figure this out. Maybe so, cause love can really be blind and take over your mind. You need to try one more time to have a conversation with him and if he dont want to then let him go. You can do better!
2006-10-06 09:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mizz.Sexy 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a cheater, or at least a bastard, to me. Dump him! File for divorce! And set his clothes on fire! That should teach him a lesson for the next woman.
2006-10-06 09:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by doc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need the name of a good divorce lawyer, now. Weather he is cheating or not he is an animal of the lowest sort
2006-10-06 09:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave my husband if he did that to me. Sorry, but I don't think he hass any good feelings for you at all. I really don't know what to say.
2006-10-06 09:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your man has interests more than one i assume it may not just be cheating on you he may be into something much worse take a walk a long long walk the other way!!!!!!!
2006-10-06 09:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would say move on find someone that will treat you right
2006-10-06 09:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by juju113069 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋