Im 21 and I want to get married. Is that too young?

Answer 1

Not if you are ready and your mate is ready♥

Answer 2

I really want to say yes on this one. It's a hard age to be married at. I have been married for 6 years... going on 7... and thinking about separation or murder at this point. LOL.

This doesn't mean that your relationship will be mine. AND I do LOVE my husband, I just want to be doing other things, and we are missing a spark these days. For us, there's our son we have to think about too, which makes things more complicated... but also has made us more willing to work things out.

I am not meaning to sound discouraging... it's just, there is a lot of growth that happens from 21 - 24 it seems, and it hard to grow as a person, when you are thinking and worrying about the feelings and emotions of another person.

It can be done, but I recommend waiting at least a couple years. ;)

Answer 3

Think it through cause you are the only one that can determine if you are ready. Have you seen and done all the things in life you desired? Probably not. Have you been away to other places with friends? Probably not!
When you get married you are adding another person to you responsibility and the same goes for them, you no longer can do things at the spur of the moment without taking the other persons feelings into consideration.. Are you ready to be committed to one person only but most important is that 1 person ready to commit to you solely? If you feel you have lived you single life to the fullest then you may be ready but once again is the other person ready?? Good luck with your decision.

Answer 4

you know what, if you know that youre ready and feel as if this is the right one then i say congratulations on your wedding day! No one else has to live your life and deal with your choices except for you! I mean being young is being young and i hear that way to often! Most people think "stay young and live life!" But usually living life means meeting and sleeping with different people and diseases aint and never will be worth it! Make your own choices and choose them wisely! Whose to say you'll fall in love again with the right one? Take advantage, be yourself! (you only have one chance! good luck!)PeAcE

Answer 5

im 20 and im about to get married!! i dont think that 21 is a bad age to get married at. just as long as ur ready and ur mate that's all that matters!!

Answer 6

if you have to ask then I'm sure you already know the answer. if you feel your not ready don't get married to save his feelings, because if it were him he would not go though with it, if your having doubts then maybe you should have a talk with your future husband and let him know how you are feeling and maybe you will feel better or why not talk to your mom or best friend or even you sister talk it out with someone and decide from there

Answer 7

Wait at least 4-5 more years

Answer 8

I think it is a bit young, however only you know if you are ready. I think completing school and experiencing life gets you ready emotionally and financially for marriage.

Best Wishes, with whatever you choose!

:o)

Answer 9

YES, it's too, too, too young. Live a little first. Live toether if you must. Don't be a statistic. If you both want it, have a proper engagement and be patient. Don't be foolish.

Take it from me....I know from experience.

Answer 10

I was married at eighteen. I'm now twenty and happy as ever. Its been good and I'm looking forward to the next sixty years together with my man (he's twenty-two now).

Answer 11

I think so - I would advise waiting till about 30, people change way too much during their 20's