Should I give my ex/daughters father another chance he wants to marry me but he has cheated in the past?

Answer 1

No..once a cheater always a cheater!! Remember how it felt when you found out he was cheating? Remember that.....now what do YOU think????

Answer 2

If he is under 30 and the cheating was more than 2.8 years ago and if the woman that he cheated with has short hair. If he is over 30 then by all means yes. I say why not take him back after all you are only risking changing the little stabiltiy that your daughter may know now and putting her in a situation where she will get used to mommy and daddy being together then you can screw her world up again, sure go ahead...

Answer 3

Men are prone to cheat on their wives, but the love for you could be real. If he has cheated on you why isn't he asking the other woman to marry him? Believing that your man can only do it with you is like living in fairy land. Truth is; despite the love for you, men still get tempted to go out with other women without neccessarilly subtracting from the love for you. I would say marry him for the sake of your daughter and give allowance for cheating. Some of the coolest couples you know are just good at keeping such indescritions from public view.

Answer 4

That's a question you will have to answer for yourself! Advice from others may or may not be beneficial for you in this situation. Trust is one of the most factors of a relationship-without it, chances are a relationship can't/won't survive. So, you need to sit down and make a list of all the pros as well as the cons. Then, really ask yourself- Is it something you want to do for you...or more for your child?!

Answer 5

First, what do you mean by "ex/daughter"? Just curious I don't understand. Second, NO!!!! He didn't love you enough to not cheat on you why would you put yourself through that **** again and again??? THink about it then find it in you to tell him to take a hike. You do not need him to socialize and love the" ex/daughter".

Answer 6

If a man cheated on me, I'd never give him another chance.
Someone who cheats on you, has no respect for you & respect is very important in a relationship.

I wouldn't even have to think twice about it.
No disloyal cheater is worth my time. Find a man who respects you enough to be there for you instead of sneaking behind your back with another woman.

Answer 7

anyone can change if they really want to. The real question is does he really want to change, and is he ready to go to therapy to find out why he did it in the first place? Behavior is the end result of something that happened in the past, or because of some insecurity. Sometimes men who are insecure seek attention from women because they are not secure with themselves. I wish you and your daughter the best.

Answer 8

Once they have cheated it is very hard to gain that trust back. It depends on if you are willing to be cheated on again. A marriage is a sacred trust and honesty is a very big part of it. From every relationship I have seen (or been in) once they cheat on you once it always happens again.

Best of luck, I know it is hard to be alone.

Answer 9

If I understand it well, you mean your ex husband wants to remarry you? Here is my opinion:
1) If my children are small I definitely would consider the proposal.
2) If my children are growth then think twice.
3) If I could do better without him, don't think, move on.

Answer 10

Well, I know some people thats been through that and they said they love each other even more and relize how much they really do love them, but then there is the phrase, once a cheater, always a cheater.