I met a man last year at work. he had a girl & i had a man. things that were going on in our lives got us talking to each other, which led to a 7 month affair. we knew it was wrong, but we couldnt stay away from each other. we tried, but we were just so into each other. we were happy. we became best friends & we started to love each other. what were we supposed to do? just one look from him and i'd melt.my man found out about us when he left his wallet in my car one night accidentlly, and called up his girlfriend and a huge blow-up went down, and she kicked him out & he left that night to go to his moms house in another state. its been 9 1/2 months, & i havent heard from him since. im still with my boyfriend, he forgave me, but i long for this man. i cry all the time. i miss him. i know its not fair 2 b with my man & dream of another. am i stupid or crazy, or am i in-love? i dont know what to do. how do i let go? or do i take the risk of trying 2 find him. do i leap, or do nothing?
2006-10-06 08:28:42 · 5 answers · asked by leekee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I say find him. There is nothing worse than living life longing for someone and never knowing what could have been.
2006-10-09 04:35:58 · answer #1 · answered by spyshy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not married, nor are you in love!
Take the leap! Find this man!! BUT be careful, he might be the type that runs everytime he gets caught not being the great, outstanding boyfriend.
IF you know for a fact that you 2 love each other, go ask the girlfriend where he is.............maybe she can help. OR if you know where his mom lives, do something about it.
2006-10-06 08:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leap
2006-10-06 08:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by the sponge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you long for this man, why are you with your boyfriend. You're being so selfish and thoughtless about other people's feelings. This is all about you and making sure that you're happy and satisfied. I don't know if you're stupid. Whatever you are, you're not ready to be in the relationship with your boyfriend.
2006-10-06 08:37:12 · answer #4 · answered by sillylittlemen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with your heart, write and ask Dear Abby...
2006-10-06 08:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by LittleLady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋