2006-10-06 08:34:23 · 31 answers · asked by MELISSA E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wait until the divorce is final.
2006-10-06 08:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been separated 2 mos, and you want to start dating AGAIN??? How about taking a breather? Go ahead and take care of your problems first. Why jump from the frying pan back into the fire?
You are what I call, co-dependent. You're so used to having someone around, it's killing you NOT having anyone. Stop it! You can't be happy with anyone else unless you're happy with yourself. Try being alone for a while. This is the most peace & quiet you'll have. Enjoy it. You don't need a man to be happy. You're emotional right now and feel an emptyness. That's normal. Give yourself some time.
Once you get divorced and get settled, then start dating. Anything at this point is a rebound, no matter how well you think you connect. I made this mistake and barely got away by the skin of my teeth. Don't fall into the same trap. Be smart, you've still got a lot going for you hon.
2006-10-06 08:48:44 · answer #2 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm currently separated from mine too right now- we have 5 kid- but I don't even have time to think about dating. Have you tried counseling first to see what maybe went wrong to begin with before you start into another defective relationship?? What ever happened to preservation of marriages? Do you want a divorce? What's holding you back from filing- if you haven't filled yet? Don't think it's a free paass to go and throw your koochie around-- you could get hurt, hurt someone else or worse yet catch something you can't give back. Be careful what you do!!! Make sure it's completely over first!!
2006-10-06 08:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by mcjih5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said seperated not Divorced ther is a difference,until you get divorced you shouldn't date other people because then they have to deal with your baggage and possibly your Husband as well and seperation means you have the option to go back but divorce means you have your mind made up and you want to move on without eachother and not many guys would be interested if you tell them you have been seperated for 2 months because they will feel like you are just on the rebound.
2006-10-06 08:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he dating anyone else? My husband and I split, and he was dating with in 2 weeks. (Ok, I'm not stupid, he was dating BEFORE we split) We have now been split for 6 months and I have been dating for 5. Once you are sure that things are OVER for good, go out. Don't rush into a serious relationship, but there is no reason you can't go out for dinner, drinks, and dancing. Oh, and, my ex and I are still great friends. Just because you both move on, doesn't mean things have to get ugly.
2006-10-06 09:46:55 · answer #5 · answered by JENNIFER G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no correct answer to this - certainly not until you divorce as that could take many months or years. I would suggest that you don't jump into anything that is not special at this stage, but if someone has entered your life and you feel that it could be something good for you, I would go for it. Be discreet though, and if there is a possibility that your husband could find out about it and become distressed, you should make sure he hears through you and not through someone else.
Be careful. You will be quite vulnerable at this stage, whether you know it or not. Good luck.
2006-10-06 08:39:52 · answer #6 · answered by Suzyshoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no specific time frame for dating after a divorce. Just a little advice though, until you are legally divorced, I would be a little careful. I'm not sure where you live, or what your circumstances are but in some states, your spouse can use this against you in court. Luck to you!
2006-10-06 08:38:41 · answer #7 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see almost every one saying wait tell after the divorce. "NO"! Most divorces can last for over a year. Why would anyone want to wait that long before moving on with their lives. Move on now and make yourself happy.
2006-10-06 09:08:18 · answer #8 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 08:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by embrey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are legally separated, it's your right to date when and how often you want. When you feel comfortable about going back out to the whole dating scene again, go for it. You dont need anyones permission to do it. Tho if you have a divorce dispute of anykind, then please be carefull. In the state of PA, once you are legally separated, you can go about your business, and not worry about getting called out for adultry.
2006-10-06 08:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by foxxy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋