Family & Relationships - 4 October 2006

I have very nice in-laws and a wonderful husband. Although I respectfully acknowledge thier holidays as well as attend thier holiday get togethers they never send cards or even verbally acknowledge my holidays. I have invited them to holiday parties and explained my holidays to them yet they still act as if my holidays don't exsist. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings but I am hurt and growing a bit resentful. has anyone else experienced this problem? Tell me about your situation. It will make me feel less alone. Thanks.

2006-10-04 04:26:45 · 7 answers · asked by veronicazombie 2 in Family

2006-10-04 04:26:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is your participation / money you spend on being apart of the party considered the "gift"?

2006-10-04 04:25:43 · 32 answers · asked by ataman 4 in Weddings

How would I go about telling my mother that the man she is with is nothing but trash and does not deserve her?

2006-10-04 04:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by blushing_bride_2006 1 in Family

She was a new friend, i really felt bad, didnt want them to be homeless, but now i find she has used so much of my stuff, i found her an apartment, bought groceries, paid for 75% of things we did. she has done dishes maybe 3 times in weeks, never vacumed or cleaned the bathroom, everything revolved around her. now she is turning things on me, saying there was a price to pay for staying here. when she lied to me from day one. she lied to her exbf. and still hasnt told him the truth. what do you do with people like that? how can one open up there home to someone and have them turn on you? you give the kindness of your heart only to have it stomped on...

2006-10-04 04:24:59 · 8 answers · asked by WILDFIREJOANN 3 in Friends

at the same time, he's talking with his female friend on the phone. 80% of the time he's talking to the girl, when question, he said he's looking at you!! what does that mean?? i feel ignored.... but he keep saying he's there...

2006-10-04 04:24:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you think it is different?

2006-10-04 04:24:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i really like but i know we can never be more than friends. sometimes i feel that i am not pretty or good enough to be with him. many guys tell me that i'm beautiful but i am not interested in them. he is the only one i desire. i really cant get him off my mind and even when i try i realize that i dont want to be over him because dreaming of him is the only thing that makes me feel happy. i am so confused and heart broken. how can i be rid of this unbearable heartache??

2006-10-04 04:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother wants to propose to his wife but wants a unique way to do it any suggestions?

2006-10-04 04:23:49 · 9 answers · asked by Jasmine M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I work all day and nothing gets done around the house. He just sits on the computer all day and does nothing. He does, however, take care of our child while I am at work. Lately, he has started drinking alot of beer just about every night. It's getting really expensive and leaving me short on rent, not to mention sometimes he will get too drunk to be able to watch our daughter properly. Also, he gets really angry somtimes if I don't take care of him after he isn't feeling good. He stays up all night every night and we never go to bed together anymore. Sometimes I can't sleep because he is blasting his stereo too loud in the middle of the night while he is drinking. He has never laid a hand on me or our daughter but I am afraid he might. He says that if I leave he will have me put in jail for parental kidnapping. What should I do? I cannot afford daycare and I can't take another day off to watch my daughter because he is too drunk to do so some days.

2006-10-04 04:23:07 · 49 answers · asked by Torturedsoul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my girlfriend and I were forced to break up.I love her and all but our its hard to keep together in two different towns.What should I do?

2006-10-04 04:22:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 04:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by ARSON34 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex left stating he was still conflicted about his ex. He wanted to get therapy, and resolve that within himself before having a relationship. He had had other relationships before ours. He left me hanging as to whether he would come back. A month later, I cut off contact because it was too painful. I saw he had gone back online after I cut it off with him. He has not reconciled with his ex. I feel betrayed and lied to and it has been hard to move on to other people who have come along because of the hurt and anger I still feel. How do I resolve this so I can move on? Should I talk to him again? I feel stuck and want a new relationship, but I won't let people get close to me. This was long distance, so it adds to the frustration of not knowing his truth or his actions. Let me know what you think.

2006-10-04 04:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by waterbaby 1 in Singles & Dating

It is not about just being pretty and sexy to keep the guy around we also need what you need - do you agree with me ?

2006-10-04 04:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not saying I dont like it, but just very tempting at times.

2006-10-04 04:20:19 · 8 answers · asked by forlife_918 1 in Singles & Dating

Boxing day is the day after Christmas?

2006-10-04 04:19:58 · 8 answers · asked by Pompin Jo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-04 04:19:23 · 9 answers · asked by amit p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have been really good friends with a small group of girls over the past 10 years. Ive gone through alot of personal struggles for two thirds of the time that I have known them. We have drifted apart and undergone a whole lot of changes in that time. Mostly, I have withdrawn and focused on whats been going on for me. Last two years, we have really tried to rebuild our friendship. No more pleasentries and for the sake of appreances attitude. These two particular firends have been there for me during some really dark times. Ive put them through hell over and over again. They feel that I don't communicate with them, that I don't allow them to say what they feel or recognize that they have feelings too. Walked away alot of times, but they have always been there to drag me back in. I finally asked them not to be a part of my life anymore. I don't feel like I belong in this relationship and that it would be better if I moved on without them. Was I right in this decision? Advice?

2006-10-04 04:18:40 · 10 answers · asked by poof-a-nini 1 in Friends

i want help forgetting bout an ex who tells me heloves me but doesnt i dont want to fall for him anymore n he still controls me HELP!

2006-10-04 04:18:39 · 12 answers · asked by Jasmine M 1 in Singles & Dating

She has money enough to do and buy whatever she wants ,what could my wife and i buy her that she might appreciate,and dont say being a friend is enough,she wont go for that one

2006-10-04 04:18:18 · 26 answers · asked by wozza.lad 5 in Friends

I have more desire toward the older women (curvy and plump).

2006-10-04 04:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by Alexis 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 04:17:35 · 25 answers · asked by Thick~Chick 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-04 04:16:49 · 49 answers · asked by pooh_step1990 1 in Family

Dont get me wrong, i love him a lot but hes such a big baby.

2006-10-04 04:16:44 · 25 answers · asked by AskingAlexandria_91 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am ugly but there's a beautiful girl that I think likes me ^__^ so how can I improve my looks?
and tell me what to do and what not to do

2006-10-04 04:16:30 · 8 answers · asked by James 2 in Friends

Okay I known this guy for 7 years, just 2 years ago we decided to get togther and start a family. I learned to love him with all my heart i put him in front of EVERYTHING!!! ( BIg mistake).. anything he needed i was there andthing he wanted he had...the bigging of this year he started asking me for a kid .. I said no no no .. But then i finally thought things over and we started to try to have one. I got pregnat in August and things started slidding a bit, he stoped calling me putting excusees to see me when i would ask him what was going on he said nothign .. But i new things were changing.. thins got so bad that know i have lost the baby due to so much stress.. I called him when i was in the hosptial and he didnt picked up my calls this was on friday since then he has not called me to see what happend or if things are ok with me . It hurts so much that something so perfect went wrong i love him so much but i dont have an expliaciton why he left me !.. and no i didnt do nohting to

2006-10-04 04:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been divorced for 3 years. Over these period, my buddy of 12 years helped and supported me through all the difficult moments.

As times passed by, I came to realise that I have fallen in love with him. I believe he is awared of my feelings towards him too.

I wanted very much to pick up my courage and let him know how I feel all this while. It's too late now, he told me he is seeing a girl and getting into a serious relationship with her. The news hurt me.

Somehow, I felt I have already lost a close friend. I find it no longer easy to ask him out freely, cry on his shoulders at ease like before.

How do I drift away from him slowly and keep our friendship from from sinking? I am always thinking of him, how do I not think of him?

2006-10-04 04:15:53 · 2 answers · asked by Bear In Love 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok...we wont lie...there are things we would change about you lot (as in likes, dislikes, fighting over the TV remote) what really annoys you lot about us and why?

2006-10-04 04:15:31 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some advice! I met this person on yahoo, I told her the facts about my life, and she doesn't believe me! She told me that she'll expose me everytime I post a question! and she'll embarras me and all that! I don't know what to do! I'm crying right now! Please, I need some advice! She told me to never post another question on yahoo again! But I can't stop cause I need help, and this is the only way I can find that help that I need! She called me a liar and a scam! What do I do? I'm soo scared. She makes me cry everytime I hear from her, I told myself that I would never answer any mail from her again! But I'm always curious of what she says! She really upsets me. I'm crying right now! And knowing her, she'll probably say something stupid for the answer to this question to! She'll probably ambarras me again! I can't take this anymore! Will anyone help me?

2006-10-04 04:14:29 · 14 answers · asked by Keven K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm not talking about the long, drawn out questions followed by an endless diatribe on the questioners personal feelings, just short sweet questions that are there to make you think.

2006-10-04 04:13:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating