Okay I known this guy for 7 years, just 2 years ago we decided to get togther and start a family. I learned to love him with all my heart i put him in front of EVERYTHING!!! ( BIg mistake).. anything he needed i was there andthing he wanted he had...the bigging of this year he started asking me for a kid .. I said no no no .. But then i finally thought things over and we started to try to have one. I got pregnat in August and things started slidding a bit, he stoped calling me putting excusees to see me when i would ask him what was going on he said nothign .. But i new things were changing.. thins got so bad that know i have lost the baby due to so much stress.. I called him when i was in the hosptial and he didnt picked up my calls this was on friday since then he has not called me to see what happend or if things are ok with me . It hurts so much that something so perfect went wrong i love him so much but i dont have an expliaciton why he left me !.. and no i didnt do nohting to
2006-10-04 04:16:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
him*...what should i do .... sould i try to talk to him or just walk away ( atleast try to ) ..i have to see him tommoro to give him some paper work... whould i just give it to him and leave even know in the inside im crush and show him i dont care or should i try one more time !!!! please help me i lov ehim so much i dont know what to do !
2006-10-04 04:17:31 · update #1
Sweetie,
I think it's time you move on... Some guys can be so cold hearted... He has obviously shown you, that he doesn't really care... A real man would be there through thick and thin....
It also seems like you have been doing for him and he hasn't for you.... Remember it is a two way street. It is okay to give, but it's nice to also receive and if you are doing all the giving and not receiving at all, in any which way or form... Then it is obvious he's just using you or just wants someone to take care of him...
Life is too short for you to settle for anything less.... As hard as it may be right now, you need to move on... Hang around with your friends and family for support... Learn from this mistake and move on... (TURN THE NEGATIVE INTO A POSITIVE)
Sometimes we have to go through bad seeds to get to the right one... And all the trials and tribulations you go through, will just make you a better and stronger person....
When it's time, the Lord will send you someone special in your life. Someone you will know how to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.....
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS!
(p.s Sorry about your loss)
2006-10-04 05:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is there to love about a guy that didn't care enough to even answer your phone calls from the hospital or check on you when you lost his baby? Girl, don't settle for such a jerk, can't you see that he is a heartless a**hole. Do you want to live your life with someone who care so little about you? You are setting yourself up for more hurt if you manage to work things out. Please take care of yourself and stay away from him.
2006-10-04 04:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh!!!
I am realy sory to know that. It is very serious. I know you must be disturb. I can't advice you any thing with sure but would like to tell you that just don't give up your hopes. Talk to him and try to solve the problem. At this touchy moment I can just wish you good luck and will pray for you.
2006-10-04 04:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 12:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's already walked away from you. I suggest taking a step back and take care of yourself. Give him whatever paperwork, etc., that you need to and then walk away. You deserve much better than what's he's given you. Any man who doesn't even come to the hospital, etc., isn't worth your time.
2006-10-04 04:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh huni thats so sad for you. Go and meet the pig and show him you can survive without him. Go meet someone who deserves your love and give it to them. Then hopefully you can have a long lasting loving happy relationship and lots of happy children. Dont waste your time with him, he sounds so immature!
Move on and you will heal in time!!
Thinking of you! x
2006-10-04 04:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might make you feel better if you tell him how you feel but don't try to get back with him. Clearly he didn't care about your pregnancy or he would have been the first one by your side at the hospital crying with you for your loss. You deserve to have someone treat you better than that.
2006-10-04 04:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be scared and not sure how to help...
Talk to him, ask him if he knew you lost the baby and why did he not call you? You may get your answers from a simple conversation..
Things are not always as they seem......and you may never have or get that explanation....relationships are hard....
Good luck to you...you are in a very hard situation right now....take care..
2006-10-04 04:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where there's a will there's a way.
Try to sort the things out, with a cool cool mind. Insha'Allah the things will improve, and you will be happier than ever.
GL
2006-10-04 04:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by Abdullah A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it to him and leave
the f**ker did not even visit you in the hospital
he does not deserve you
2006-10-04 04:20:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋