there is this guy that i really like but i know we can never be more than friends. sometimes i feel that i am not pretty or good enough to be with him. many guys tell me that i'm beautiful but i am not interested in them. he is the only one i desire. i really cant get him off my mind and even when i try i realize that i dont want to be over him because dreaming of him is the only thing that makes me feel happy. i am so confused and heart broken. how can i be rid of this unbearable heartache??
2006-10-04 04:24:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First understand why you don't think you are good enough. Sounds like you need to explore some of your self esteem issues to make this right.
2006-10-04 04:26:50 · answer #1 · answered by needhelp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably cause even though you have those people teeling you that you are beautiful, you have people saying the opposite. dont listen to what everyone else thinks. if you are into this guy, she should accept you weather your small or big of short hair long hair or no hair at all. its not about whats on the outside but whats in the inside and if he goes by looks that hes just another asshole. im nt the best looking i dont think i am but my fiance loves me for me. im jealous cause all girls like him and at times its difficult but we just had a son and he still complements me but i will never get that oh im ugly out of my head because i put it there where i dont believe anyone else. we are all beautiful we are made just the way we were intended tobe
2006-10-04 11:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by miraclebaby_2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you really like this guy.Have you tryed asking him if he would want to be more than friends. If not you should.See what he says if he says that he just wants to be your friend then he's not right for you and you should move on you'll find a guy who really like you eventually just give it time, but if he has the same feeling for you as you do for him then go for it.Good Luck!
2006-10-04 11:31:26 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mentioned his behaviour with you in detail. If he is friendly with you then there is no problem. Don't fell inferiorty complex about you and your personality. Actual personality is way of carrying yourself and not the beauty of face. Just be with him, give him maximum time and make him habitual of your company. I hope you will be able to grap him. wish you all the best. Take care.
2006-10-04 11:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to me moving on isnt the only answer..show him u love him show him u care for him...tell him u like him...be with him wen he needs..but watever u do do not give up and never think scince he thinks im ugly i am...ur not even tho ive never scene you before nobody is ugly... there are other guys out there that will want to be with you...hope this will help
2006-10-04 11:30:14 · answer #5 · answered by Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st of all u should just tell him how u feel because u will never know until u tell.. i think u just flirt with him a lil or some thing. i know how u feel about this the same thing is happenin to me and really sucks just tell him how u feel and if he does not like u try to move on i know its really hard wat ur going though!
2006-10-04 11:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by *SoMe*OnE*SeCeRt* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋