My ex left stating he was still conflicted about his ex. He wanted to get therapy, and resolve that within himself before having a relationship. He had had other relationships before ours. He left me hanging as to whether he would come back. A month later, I cut off contact because it was too painful. I saw he had gone back online after I cut it off with him. He has not reconciled with his ex. I feel betrayed and lied to and it has been hard to move on to other people who have come along because of the hurt and anger I still feel. How do I resolve this so I can move on? Should I talk to him again? I feel stuck and want a new relationship, but I won't let people get close to me. This was long distance, so it adds to the frustration of not knowing his truth or his actions. Let me know what you think.
2006-10-04 04:21:25 · 4 answers · asked by waterbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The distance thing should make it easier for you sweetie. That way you don't have to run into him or see him with other girls. That's painful. But you need to pick up your sorrows and move on. There are more fish in the sea and you can't wait on him to fix his issues. MOVE ON. If he solves everything in his mind and wants you back then you better make him chase you. Play hard to get okay? MOVE SLOWLY. You will need to learn him better and gain trust in him again. Don't call him.
2006-10-04 04:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys are weak when it comes to ending a relationship. They really don’t want to hurt you so they use whatever excuse will relieve them of the guilt. You have to see that guy for who he really is and not what you made him out to be. When we first meet someone we have a tendency to glorify them. This ex of yours is weak and will continue to have relationship problems for a long time, but don’t let it be your fault and when you meet someone new, don’t expect it do be wonderful. Just focus on really getting to know that person and not creating something you want.
2006-10-04 11:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by tightlies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on Betsy C for the mere fact that he left you handing.
Sorry no ifs or buts. Just plain simple truth.
Too bad I'm more than 8,000 miles away. Would have told that if i had met you sooner you won't have any memories of being alone.
Seriously, MOVE ON
2006-10-04 11:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you dont have to make other people happy ,think about you happyness,,,, and think that how about you met the man iun your dreams then what? what are you going to do?
2006-10-04 12:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Airforcepink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋