She was a new friend, i really felt bad, didnt want them to be homeless, but now i find she has used so much of my stuff, i found her an apartment, bought groceries, paid for 75% of things we did. she has done dishes maybe 3 times in weeks, never vacumed or cleaned the bathroom, everything revolved around her. now she is turning things on me, saying there was a price to pay for staying here. when she lied to me from day one. she lied to her exbf. and still hasnt told him the truth. what do you do with people like that? how can one open up there home to someone and have them turn on you? you give the kindness of your heart only to have it stomped on...
2006-10-04 04:24:59 · 8 answers · asked by WILDFIREJOANN 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
darlin what goes around comes around...don't let this one person change the fact that you are probably to most warm hearted, welcoming person on this planet..
2006-10-04 04:28:06 · answer #1 · answered by swingorstrikeout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a "friend" do this too. Sounds like you have a real parasite on your hands. I found out later that the one I had did this to lots of people. Gave them a sob story, moved in promising to help out until she got on her feet and then took and took until her host couldn't take any more. Then she'd move on to the next victim with stories of how unfair the previous host was. It's time to take out the trash. Kick her out, your deserve better.
2006-10-04 04:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Chocoholic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember the lesson you have learned and get on with your life.
2006-10-04 04:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her out, she's a user and will move onto another victim.
2006-10-04 04:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her to the curb and have nothing else to do with her. it is a simple as that, all she is going to do is continue to make your life hell. good ridence to bad rubish...
2006-10-04 04:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she has to leave. Don't let someone treat you like this. Stand your ground. Would God want you to take this from them? NO...........
2006-10-04 04:33:35 · answer #6 · answered by dianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her asss to the curb and be done with it.
2006-10-04 04:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not af friend you dont need that ****
2006-10-04 04:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋