I've been divorced for 3 years. Over these period, my buddy of 12 years helped and supported me through all the difficult moments.
As times passed by, I came to realise that I have fallen in love with him. I believe he is awared of my feelings towards him too.
I wanted very much to pick up my courage and let him know how I feel all this while. It's too late now, he told me he is seeing a girl and getting into a serious relationship with her. The news hurt me.
Somehow, I felt I have already lost a close friend. I find it no longer easy to ask him out freely, cry on his shoulders at ease like before.
How do I drift away from him slowly and keep our friendship from from sinking? I am always thinking of him, how do I not think of him?
2006-10-04 04:15:53 · 2 answers · asked by Bear In Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
let him know your true feelings and so be it if it dont turn out the way you wanted it.
at least you get the answer and load off your mind. better to be wondering and regreting later.
get the answer and move on if its unfavourable. there're probably a 2nd Mr Right waitihg for you to discover and sharing life with you.
2006-10-04 18:04:48 · answer #1 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever told him you love him? He may not think you would ever love him and may be scared to tell you first...sometimes we have to take that leap...and be the first one to unfold our feelings for another...
Talk with him and be honest.....then you can move forward to whatever it brings...he may feel the same way, but too afraid to tell you....
communication is a key.....
2006-10-04 11:19:34 · answer #2 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋