I have recently endured a severe heartbreak as a result of my, then girlfriend, splitting up with me. After 1 month she ran off with another fellow from her work. I consider myself somewhat fortunate in that it has happened to me when I have no kids, no joint property, no marriage etc.
However, it still deeply hurts and ever since this traumatic event, I really haven't been myself.
I have tried to approach new girls and chat them up, but I feel I am very low in self-esteem and confidence; I feel as if I have lost my energy to go out on the prowl.
What really scares me now is that I really did trust that girl, and the ironic thing was that she was more into me than I was into her if that makes sense. She was so petrified that she was going to lose me one day and did everything to keep a hold on me.
With all that security I was given, and then the whole thing turning boomerang on me, how can I now look at the next girl, when she speaks such words of emotion, and genuinely believe her
2006-10-04
04:07:54
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Christian_80
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Marriage & Divorce