When my boyfriend is fingering me I try to have an orgasm. I know I can have one, I have before. When I feel like I'm getting ready to have it I start to push. Is this making it more difficult for me? Should I just stay relaxed and it'll happen?
2006-10-04 04:04:03 · 15 answers · asked by questiongirl123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
"Pushing" is part of the orgasm. Let 'er rip. Relax and let the natural pushin' begin......:)
2006-10-04 04:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push!!! That is what is keeping you from having an orgasm! An orgasm is is reached by relaxation and concentration of what feels good. Not a forced thing.
2006-10-04 11:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to push. There are different types of orgasms 1 being a G-Spot and another being a clitoral. just relax and let it happen. Enjoy the moment
2006-10-04 11:06:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - no pushing - you have to stay relaxed. I have given more women orgasms by fingering them, and they all have done the same thing relax!!!!
2006-10-04 11:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I have to concentrate a lot. Relax and just concentrate on how good it feels.
2006-10-04 11:10:46 · answer #5 · answered by Love_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more u fight the more he will tend 2 easyu up because he will get frustrated with u and not do it aat all, my advice 2 u help him out grab his hand and let him know where u want 2 be touched and it will excite him more because u r taking an ACTIVE role in what u WANT him 2 do.
2006-10-04 11:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got it. Stay relaxed and it will happen.
2006-10-04 11:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Rob B 69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl get on up there and ride it!don't hold back that is natural to push cuz you want it there!give those fingers the ride of your life!i'm sure he'll love it too!
2006-10-04 11:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you're trying too hard. Just relax and let it happen.
2006-10-04 11:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes more than likely. just relax and let it happen.
2006-10-04 11:20:46 · answer #10 · answered by crank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋