Okay theres this one certain guy that lives out of town and says he wants to make things work but its hard for me because i cant trust long distant realationship because something is always running through my head like if he dont answer his phone are call me...what should i do?
2006-10-04 04:05:23 · 7 answers · asked by BabyG 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in a long distance relationship earlier this year and it at first showed promise, she seemed real cool, understood my life and my situation, knew what I looked like but when she came to visit, she was a whole different person physically & emotionally and turned out to be a real BIG b*tch! She said one thing and did another! I would seriously find someone in person where you live, that way you know right then if you have chemistry or not! If you choose to continue, take it slow, don't rush it or you'll get burned from an unstable person like I did!!!
2006-10-04 04:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by Damned fan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one.
I dated a girl for two years when I was 15,16 then had to move out of the country and we tried the long distance thing for a year but she eventually broke it off when she found someone else. If you say that something is always running through your head, then that tells me you dont trust him and if you dont then the relationship does not seem healthy and probably is not strong enough to make it work.
2006-10-04 04:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'VE BEEN IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP SINCE THE LAST OCTOBER. I NEVER REALLY LIKED THOSE KIND OF RELATIONSHIP OR THOUGHT THEY COULD BE REAL. BUT...
WE GOT MARRIED A MONTH AGO! WE BOTH NEVER BEEN HAPPIER! IT'S VERY VERY HARD THOUGH, COS WE R ABLE TO SEE EACH OTHER FOR 6-8 DAYS A MONTH ONLY AND THER'S NO WAY TILL MAY NEXT YEAR TO START LIVING TOGETHER. IF U REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER, U SHOULD TRUST EACH OTHER WHEN UR APART. WE DEALT WITH THIS A LONG TIME AGO. WHEN THE FEELINGS ARE REAL AND U DON'T STOP COMMUNICATING WHEN SEPARATED(EMAILS, IMS, TEXT, PHONE) THINGS CAN WORK OUT! IF U LOVE HIM, DON'T LOSE HIM ONLY COS HE IS NOT FROM UR TOWN. MY HUSBAND IS FROM 6000MILES AWAY AND IT WORKED OUT PERFECTLY... GOOD LUCK
2006-10-04 04:16:27 · answer #3 · answered by Stella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about finding someone that really care about u and give u all his numbers his cellphone, home, work, email and everything
even his best friend number his sisters his brothers
it is a long list so if u wanna have a long distance relationship is not that bad just give it a try
and put into ur mind that he also will think the same if u didnt ans ur phone
plz ans my question :) it is like a sea-saw its a relationship and u should accepted with its terms and condtions and live it
i hope to understand what i mean :)
and if u want any help this is my email Tee_shawky@yahoo.com
2006-10-04 04:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to trust him, if the trust is there then it can work but having doubt will not make the relationship work. he wants to make it work, but do you?
2006-10-04 04:09:49 · answer #5 · answered by mickey_ds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
those arent good relationships. my cousin dated someone long distance for a long time. well, they got married and she found out he had a porn problem for years. they are still married but they hit very tough times.
2006-10-04 04:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your gut and DON'T do it!
2006-10-04 04:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋