I dig this girl. I'm sure I wont meet another thats like her, she Teaches Italian once a week, She has 2 jobs Waitressing at a resturaunt and then at a Bar. She's also in College. At 23 thats pretty ambitious.
So she gave me her number and we talk. I'm dating other women to pass the time but I like her. I'd leave those other girls in a heartbeat to be for real with her. So I'm very patient, she lets me know she's down to meet up. The when is killing me, I don't pressure her at all I just enjoy the convo, time with her is always time well spent. I prolly need to just keep doing what I'm doing but your input is welcome.
2006-10-04 04:03:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are right in being patient. sounds like shes worth waiting for. I would let her know that you are there just in case she needs anything. sounds like she is carrying a heavy load for such a young person.
2006-10-04 04:26:56 · answer #1 · answered by toyloy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive me, I am not a lady. I just want to share. . .
You can not gain any affection to any individual when they are not interested to you. That is the truth.
THE FIRST STEP . . . .
Catch their eyes, their mind or their sense organs. Your looks counts but it is not the only thing (especially when you don't have the looks! Ouch!). Make some research on her interest, e.g. music, perfume, gossips, sex stories . . whatever. Ask her friends or co-workers.
You said she's a busy person. Do not disturb her routines. She will be mad if you do that! Nor put your self on display like a boring billboards on the streets. A simple health note or hello notes or a piece of chocolate on her table will initially do. Do not ask her if she likes it or not. just observe.
Do not make haste. to gain a person interest, it is not an instant coffee unless you have a gift of tongue and charisma. Patience counts. If you dont have patience, you don't have interest and you're not real.
P.S.
A. TO ENCOURAGE YOU . . .
1. some women are angry on the first time but not on the second or third time.
2.some women say they don't like the things you do or you give but soon they will.
B.THE EASY TRUTH
Some women need not anything if they like you or interested to you . . . they will just come to you!
C. THE HARSH TRUTH
Some women pretend to be busy if they don't like you.
Better do the first step.
2006-10-04 12:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by spotpx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me you are on the right track. Be careful of the other dating though, that could get messy.
2006-10-04 11:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by omvg1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's so busy she probably doesn't have time for a serious relationship, but that doesn't mean you can't be ''real'' with her. just take your time, and drop those other chicks. that's too much headache anyway, and if she finds out, it's probably not gonna be good.
2006-10-04 11:09:15 · answer #4 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋