I know that the usual answer for any worries one could have about someone else's life would be "mind your own business". Anyway my sister over feeds her daughter and the kid is three years old and already obese. In the case of the well being and health of a child being involved, should I still just mind my own business and not interfere? I feel sad when I see she cant run like other kids without being tired and having to stop. Would it be advisable that I genty try to talk to my sister and see if I can get her to do something?
2006-10-04 04:08:09 · 8 answers · asked by Graça 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes, you should talk to your sister, but be careful as to how you choose your words. she may be offended and disregard anything you may have to say. just let her know that it is harder when the child gets older to change a bad habit. encourage her to cut out most of the sweets and substitute them with fruits and vegies. Find some recipes for snacks, healthy ones like vegies sticks and peanutbutter and grapejuice dip. or apple slices with peanutbutter. things like that. if that doesn't work, you can always remind her how hard it is for a child to get through school with the other kids making fun of her and not playing with her. kids can be awefully cruel. especially when they are young.
2006-10-04 04:28:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a delicate situation. At the age of 3, it is the parent who controls food intake and is responsible for the amount and kinds of food the child eats. The child will have weight control problems all through life due to the parent's neglect. Shame on parent. The best thing to do is talk to the parent. It is no sure thing but better than letting it continue without a word. Do not criticize the child. If shame and embarrassment worked, nobody would be fat.
2006-10-04 04:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time with your niece, take her to the park to play, take her places where she is on her feet and being active and not sitting down and eating. You can do this without being offensive and just be the cool aunt. Obviously that would only be a small help without you giving up all your spare time, but it would help some. It is hard to tell the parent of a child that you think they are hurting them by over feeding them and that you think the child is obese, that is a tough one...
2006-10-04 04:14:14 · answer #3 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the best you can from your position as an aunt. Take her for walks. Go to the park and push her on a swing or play in a sandbox. The more you engage her in outdoor activities, the more she will come to enjoy being active. After playing, make healthy snacks to enjoy together-- fresh fruit and veggies arranged in a face or shapes on a plate. Once your sister sees the changes in her daughter, I'll bet she'll adopt more healthy approaches when it comes to parenting.
2006-10-04 04:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Talk to your sister. She needs to change the child's behavior while she still can. For some, the only way they know to show love is by feeding them. Your sister may need counseling, as well as strategies to help your neice control her weight. The best strategy is for her to curb her calorie intake to let her grow into her pounds. Significant weight loss is not a good idea at her age.
2006-10-04 04:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically because of the fact different mothers and dads purchase junk for their little ones, does not recommend your sister could. to ascertain that a baby to devour healthful, balanced nutrients, the full family individuals has to conform new eating conduct. it is your sister's duty. additionally, an obese baby demands greater playground pay time and activities like swimming, motorcycle driving and trekking.
2016-10-18 11:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by briscoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that is your business, it's your niece. YOu should talk to her mother about it and if that doesn't work maybe you can make it a thing to go out with the little girl , take her to the park.
2006-10-04 04:23:02 · answer #7 · answered by mickey_ds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only course of actions is to try and get through through to the parents.
2006-10-04 04:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋