so i had a little hook up with my boyfriend last night, and as we are doing the deed, he decides to switch and try and do anal, he barely got in, and i had the most weirdest uncomfortable pain.. i told him to stop. and i went to the restroom, and i just had very very little blood. like specs of it. but now i feel soar, is all this normal?
2006-10-04 04:05:43 · 32 answers · asked by lola_19_00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
GIRL WUT U LET HIM DO THAT FOR?....your butt hole probably done ripped!..hurts like hell don't it!...any way it will get better don't worry about it & next time if u want to let him come in your back door use a lubricant first!!
2006-10-04 04:08:09 · answer #1 · answered by CRYSTAL S 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I have to reply to Cowboys answer! A perfectly good vulva? What are you talking about? It's called a vagina! Anal sex may be illegal but I would hate for the laws (Big Brother) to enter our bedrooms and tell us what we can and cannot do. I would never have anal sex and luckily my husband is soooooo not interested but as long as someone is a willing participant then that is their business. Oh, and it's not annually it's anally, unless they do it once a year, LOL! One more thing. The tissue around the anus is not thinner than the vagina, the vagina gets tiny tears in it every single time a woman has sexual intercourse. We don't feel it of course but that is the main reason as to why women tend to catch HIV easier than men who who are heterosexual. But yes, this area does not have any natural lubrication and can tear very easily.
2016-03-27 04:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unnautural sex, like anal sex is very, very bad for the health
and soul. If you're a normal person who loves and treasures
life to the fullest, you shouldn't try anal sex at all.
We all know how AIDS and its infections occurred during anal
sex and yet many people don't care at all. They perceived and
like the idea of anal sex which is something extraordinary.
Unfortunately, it's the women who suffer the most in anal
sex, especially they get their bloody ***** torn with big gaping holes with no rhyme of reason.
As for the male guys, it's their ego at stake - nothing else!
2006-10-04 04:24:10 · answer #3 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I will advise that you stop it. I think the normal way is okay and that place is not met for that kind of act. It might led to something that you may not be able to cope with and so don't put yourself in danger all just for 5 minutes pleasure.
2006-10-04 04:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by freeall_freeme 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's normal if you don't do it right. It needs some stretching and lots of lube and to take it slow at first. If he didn't do these things, you could have some bleeding. This is one of the reasons that AIDS spreads so easily in gay communities. Take some time to heal and next time take it slow. Double penetration is fun too.
2006-10-04 04:08:29 · answer #5 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is normal - you are stretching an opening of your body and pushing something through there is the oposite drection it is used to being stretched.
Next time - go very slow and use lots of lube (still might bleed) but shouldnt hurt as much
2006-10-04 04:09:45 · answer #6 · answered by masteroflisa 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My ex-husband always made a mistake and entered the wrong place. It is normal to find some blood and you will be sore for a little while. But my advice is do not do anything that you are not comfortable with, make sure he always respects your decisions.
2006-10-04 04:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by */-Puss-n-Boots-/* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, honey. It's normal. Don't freak. You should never let him just put it in so fast without lube. You'll need lube and make him gradually do it. You're not used to it so it's going to be uncomfy if he doesn't do it delicately. Keep lube on hand. You won't be so sore the next day either.
2006-10-04 04:11:36 · answer #8 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes. One hole lubes naturally, the other needs man made lube. Some girls bleed a little, and yes it's normal to be sore.
2006-10-04 04:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It happened that way to my gf the first time too. She has since gotten used to it, and regularly requests it.
You'll be fine. Just remember to use an adequate amount of lube and go slow until you are used to it.
2006-10-04 04:08:12 · answer #10 · answered by jimvalentinojr 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well dear, I expect that you will get lots of replies to this - my advice is to get a No Entry sign tattooed on your bum to prevent further problems.
You may also wish to consider the long term effects - ask any old homosexual (if you can find any who haven't died of AIDS), about what it is like to have your bodily fluids leaking out of your **** because your sphincter doesn't work properly!
Dorothy Mills (Mrs)
2006-10-04 04:08:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋