Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

I feel as though my boyfriend isn't giving me enough attention and affection. Whenever we're together, I'm always all over him and he just stands there. I try to make out with him and he barely kisses back. In fact, it feels like I'm always giving, and he's always taking. I've tried to talk to him about it, and he's said that he'll change several times, but he hasn't. Don't get me wrong, he doesn't have any problem getting turned on. But it's usually all about him. He gets offended when I try to tell him things that would make me happy. What can I do to communicate to him what I want, without making either of us frustrated?

2006-10-03 04:29:01 · 5 answers · asked by AB 1 in Singles & Dating

It's for my mom and dad.
Thanks!

2006-10-03 04:28:59 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My main problem is that I have been feeling depressed lately. As much as I try to find the right guy for me I can't. Everywhere I look I see couples looking so happy, and peaceful together. I am very educated, I work, and I am pretty, but no way seems to want me as a girlfriend.

What should I Do?

2006-10-03 04:28:51 · 16 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Singles & Dating

and would you have sex outside the relationship if your spouse wasnt able to d/t the disability. how many years have you been together??

2006-10-03 04:28:42 · 9 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm fixing to be 16 here on October 11, i have this really wonderful boyfriend who i love dearly. ive been really tempted to have sex, but unfortunately im still not ready for it. how do i tell him??

2006-10-03 04:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Tasha S 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know of cases where the woman messes around with more than one guy, gets pregnant and then makes the "nice" guy believe its his child and makes him pay child support for years but later on the truth is revealed that the child was never his? Why would a woman do this to the child and the guy. It seems like when these women have two choices, the bad boy and the nice guy, they choose to put the burden on the nice guy and make him think he is the father of the child she is carrying.

2006-10-03 04:28:15 · 6 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

and would you have sex outside the relationship if your spouse wasnt able to d/t the disability. how many years have you been together??

2006-10-03 04:28:13 · 13 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

A very good friend had a girlfriend who died a couple years ago. He's never really got over it yet, although he has a new girlfriend now. When ever we say the other girls name, it reduces him to tears because that was his first real love, although he's had girlfreinds before her. I was talking with another group of friends and they were talking about how sad it was that the girl died so young and how my friend seems to be getting over this day by day. A guy who is known for saying stuff before he thinks say "He should just get over it by now. She's dead and she's not coming back". Needless to say, we were all very upset because our friend doesn't really handle death all that well.

My friend has no idea that he said this and we were all worried about if we should tell him about this or not, seeing as how his temper is very short. Should we tell our friend this guy made this statement or not?

2006-10-03 04:27:56 · 7 answers · asked by D-Wizzle 2 in Friends

I have a 22 month daughter and she still ends up in my bed. She has her own room and her own bed but I wake up in the middle of the night and there she is. I love her to pieces but the onle space I get for myself is sleeping in bed, my husband also gets upset with this because she is a bed hog!!!! What can I do to stop this??

2006-10-03 04:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by Karla K 2 in Family

Don't answer if you don't try it. Get a slice of cheddar cheese spread peanut butter on it pour chocolate syrup on the top and then put another slice of cheddar cheese on it. it is decicious... you should defineatly try it.

2006-10-03 04:27:50 · 4 answers · asked by scottishchristiansen 3 in Singles & Dating

and would you have sex outside the relationship if your spouse wasnt able to d/t the disability. how many years have you been together??

2006-10-03 04:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

TRUE.WE do not do it IS IT COMPULSORY FOR THEM???

2006-10-03 04:27:29 · 20 answers · asked by jean marc l 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi. I would love some female opinion on the following case scenario :

You are dating a guy, and you both care for each other a lot. This is definitely going to be a serious and long term relationship. You get along real well, you really like each other, and feel like you can more than like each other in a long, possibly very long term relationship.U both want to take the relatioship to the next level.

Then, the guy tells you that his last girlfriend informed him that she tested positive for Human Pappiloma Virus so he probably has it too but can't be sure since there is no HPV test for males. YET! There's an FDA approved vaccine for females, called Gardasil, proven to be 100% effective and very safe. It prevents getting HPV,both the kinds that may cause warts and the types that may cause cervical cancer. Would you get this shot so that you dont catch the HPV and stay with him? Would you leave him? What would your reaction be? Any opinions would be greatly appreciated.Thanks :-)

2006-10-03 04:27:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I reminded him about that already but it seems he ignored and make more noise days by days. I did not want to call 911 because I think let them helping another urgent situation but I really am tired and have no helping from my HOA (we live in a condomium downstair). Can you imagine when the first time he moved in @ 2 a.m. It was waked me up and I left a notes in the morning because I supossed he did not know how noise it can be. since he moved in, I always be upset and nervous because he can make a big noise in the midnight anytime. Please help me finding how to solve this big problem.
Thanks a lot,

2006-10-03 04:25:38 · 10 answers · asked by meocuaanh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

so, when was the last time you did something totally selfless for someone else? something that didn't involve something for you and didn't make you feel good about yourself..................

i mean completely selfless.

to be honest, i can't think of anytime i did something totally selfless!!

2006-10-03 04:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what to do my gf is pregnant and she has nowhere to go
i live in a small studio with one twin bed and a sofa and my 2 dogs sleep there
i m soo confused cuz i dont know what to do
i stuck between so many things

please help

honesty i dont want her to move in
she will take up too much space and i dont want inconvence my pets with her there

and my dogs dont like her

2006-10-03 04:25:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had only ever been with one guy and had been with him for years, but one night I had a little (lot) to much to drink and ended up having entercourse with two differnt guys and one girl while two other people(one guy and one girl) watched and helped alittle. we were outside by a fire and there were cars passing even at the we am hours of the morning. It was great but left me wanting more. am I normal ??

2006-10-03 04:24:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 04:24:24 · 13 answers · asked by sashjohn 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 04:24:17 · 19 answers · asked by small world 1 in Family

if right after you rmarried and u argue/fight with your spouse..and havent had sex yet..is that considered a divorce?

2006-10-03 04:24:09 · 11 answers · asked by AWESOMA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 04:24:03 · 22 answers · asked by Tulsa Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this one boy his name i can't say but he gets on everyone's nerves he is irritating. His own friends don't like him but he doesn't know it.

2006-10-03 04:23:32 · 4 answers · asked by Kenya J 2 in Friends

a few times a week. He has called her from my phone (even programmed her # in there!), I've seen her a couple of times and he's talked to her on his phone in my presence afew times as well
(not in a rude way). He describes her a "a cool girl" and says I "have to meet her". I'm not THAT suspicious cause if he was trying to hide something, why would he be so open about them chilling together, want me to meet her, and talk to her on MY phone? They work together also, so I know they see each other daily. I trust my guy, but I don't know if I can trust her- I don't know her. He clearly referenced me as "his lady" while talking to her, so she knows he's attatched. I just don't know if she sees him as a friend, like he sees her or if she could possible LIKE him and hope for something more. What would you do in this situation or how would you feel?

2006-10-03 04:23:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 04:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by Darren E 1 in Family

My husband believes that because he works he should not have to do anything else in the house hold such as help cleaning the house, taking care of the kids, bathes getting them ready for school or giving me time to myself everyone needs time to themselves he can come and go as he pleases but don't let me do it without taking the children with. WHAT'S UP WITH THAT??? Something new on the market!

2006-10-03 04:22:23 · 15 answers · asked by imhisweetheart1996 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I had erotic involvement with another couple we met on line. They are very nice people and we became friends with them, not good friends, in fact all together we have only seen them in person about 5 times in 7 months, written several emails. Only had sexual experiance with them one time. I was ok with it, and even got way into it, at the time, and my boyfriend was very considerate and kind and was not at all with the woman, only briefly with the man, we spent most of the time with each other, and them with each other. I don't want to do that again. Once was enough and his fantasy was fulfilled. He still wants to be friends with this couple and I don't understand how we can, knowing that my boyfriend would do it again if I would and the couple would too, and it is me that is holding everyone back. He thinks we should write to them and ask if they are ok with just being friends. We fought. In the am he said he loved me and wants me to be happy. What is up?

2006-10-03 04:22:15 · 7 answers · asked by darkangel 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna runaway from home?

2006-10-03 04:20:44 · 20 answers · asked by Shy 2 in Family

I wanna runaway from home?

2006-10-03 04:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by Shy 2 in Family

My wife has no sex drive. She has no interest in it at all. She has been this way as long as she can remember. She understands a healthy sex-life is important in a marriage and is looking to do something to help her become sexually aroused.

2006-10-03 04:20:15 · 3 answers · asked by Bad Pookie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I find it hard to believe this magazine article.

It said a very high number of women seek out married men because they are excellent lovers and 'want it so bad'

Do you think this is true, or possibly a male editors wish ?

2006-10-03 04:19:47 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating