and would you have sex outside the relationship if your spouse wasnt able to d/t the disability. how many years have you been together??
2006-10-03 04:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Will my life be hell with him/her? Will I go into poverty being with him/her? If I am not married to them, I might not stick to them. If I am married to them, I will have to stay. 20 yrs.
2006-10-03 05:10:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
actually there is no such thing as "disability PAY", you are not paid for being disabled. What you would receive is called "disability benefits". If your case is approved then you would get an amount from SSI from which your attorney's fees would be deducted and you'd get the balance. Problem is that you're only allowed to hold onto $2,000 and that's all. So you'd need to use the balance toward things you need for your disability. The amount you would receive monthly is different for each person and I don't know how much you're approved for so I can't guess. I suspect your attorney also applied for Medicare for you.
2016-03-27 03:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them, stick by them, no matter what. There is plenty of different types of sex to have if someone has a disability, and there are books written on that subject. I would not cheat. It only makes matters worse, no matter what your partner may say.
2006-10-03 04:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a depressing thought,I'm sure everyone would like to think so. But it is really impossible to say.How could one know untill it actually happened and so many (Ifs).If she was happy. If she was competent.and so on.As far as sex , more ifs,If she was O.K. with it(maybe?) 4 years together.
2006-10-04 06:10:24 · answer #4 · answered by Hammer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick by my hubby's side if he became disabled. I would definatly NOT get sex outside the marriage. Cheating for any reason is WRONG!
2006-10-03 04:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jewells 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes
2006-10-03 04:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Blk Angel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would remain faithful to my husband, I love him, and that love for him is greater than any selfish se*ual need that I may have, there is more to life and to a marriage than physical intimacy and you can find intimacy in other parts of your relationship.
We have been together for about 5 years.
2006-10-03 04:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I would stay with my husband, when i said for better or worse, I mean't it!!! We have been together 8 years and on the 27th of October we will be celebrating our 7th year anniversary!!!!and NO I would not cheat!
2006-10-04 04:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by Justin's Wife of 10 Years!! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes I"d stay with her I married her for her, as far as sex outside of marriage we would talk about it if I thought it was necessary to have it , if she said no then I wouldnt do it.
2006-10-03 04:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by a1_friend64 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ofcourse i would stick by him no matter what, my husband is blind and i would never think of leaving him, it was an occupational accident on the job. i would want him to stay with me if i were the one who was disabled.
2006-10-03 04:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋