I'm fixing to be 16 here on October 11, i have this really wonderful boyfriend who i love dearly. ive been really tempted to have sex, but unfortunately im still not ready for it. how do i tell him??
2006-10-03 04:28:36 · 7 answers · asked by Tasha S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just like you told us, the way that you worded the question is the same thing that you can tell him, good luck!
2006-10-03 04:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not ready, and don't be shy about it. If you give him any doubt he will continue to try. You have to be firm and forceful.
Then you can convince him there are other things that you can do to please him that will finish him just as well. Just use lots of lotion and make sure you ask him what feels good cause most women have NO idea how to give a hand job.
2006-10-03 11:48:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he feel's the same way about you and loves you just as much as you do, he will wait. If he pressures you into sex then you know he's with you for the wrong reasons!! Good Luck Batasha
2006-10-03 11:32:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tamika 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same way you told us. There is no need to bring it up iuntil he wants sex from you, and if he odes, just tell him kindly, that no, are are not ready yet. Tell him you love him and that sex isn't the same thing as love.
2006-10-03 11:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like what you said here....be honest, its always best and if he leaves you because you won't have sex with him then that's all he was in it for in the first place. never do anything, sex, etc. until you are ready.
2006-10-03 11:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by oh...lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.. just the way you asked us.
It's the best way to tell him. If he is so wonderful like you said then he will understand... besides you are still too young.
2006-10-03 11:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by mrsstephaniekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that toy love and care for him but not ready to go that far right now and he will know when you are ready.
2006-10-03 12:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by georgia babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋