and would you have sex outside the relationship if your spouse wasnt able to d/t the disability. how many years have you been together??
2006-10-03 04:28:42 · 9 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As much as the right answer should be "yea I would stand beside him" let's face it, we are human and we have needs. I think that if it's the best love you've ever had then yea you can do it but it will take a lot of work and dedication. I honestly don't know if I could do it, I think this is one of those questions where you can say what you would do in that situation but until your in it you never know.
2006-10-03 04:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any relationship is a two way street. It's all about your values, and how much you love and care for that person and their feelings....Personally it just seems wrong to tell someone you love and care for them, and then go outside of your relationship to serve your own personal pleasure. My husband and I have been together for almost 4 years. He is totally disabled. However, he wasn't that way when we first met. We married in March of this year. I would never think of straying to someone else for my own personal pleasure. It takes a lot out of you, wen you are in that type of relationship, but if you truly love someone, it's something that you learn to deal with.
2006-10-03 04:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by lil_rowdy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick with them, because I mean if your commited to that person and you really love them, then you'll stay with them and even if u can't have sex, so what. Yeah you might grow up as a virgin or something, but sex shouldn't be everything in a relationship.
2006-10-03 04:31:44 · answer #3 · answered by christopher 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I would not have sex outside of the relationship.... And yes I would stick with him... I was there before and he cant help if something happened to him.
2006-10-03 04:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 28 and I've never had sex. It's something I want to experience someday, I'd have to break it off. I would never have sex outside the relationship. It's not right.
2006-10-03 04:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Ben R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course, no doubt about it. there is nothing else that i would love to do than to spend the rest of my life with my boyfriend. who cares if he's disabled?? hes still the same person inside!!
2006-10-03 04:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened 2 me but i was able 2 bounce back as far as my sexual problem , but yeah she up and left and i am glad because i founf my wife , but it is very wrong 2 leave a loved (supposed) one in a time of need.
2006-10-03 04:31:32 · answer #7 · answered by q45dip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married, and I would stick by him, and would not stray, no matter what. 17 years.
2006-10-03 04:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not, no matter the length of time together.
2006-10-03 04:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋