and would you have sex outside the relationship if your spouse wasnt able to d/t the disability. how many years have you been together??
2006-10-03 04:28:13 · 13 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The real question is, if "you" had a developed a disability would your boyfriend/girlfriend stick by you?
Think about it like that and you'll have your answer.
As for the sex...there's more to life than that. You think Christopher Reeves wife fooled around on Superman....?
I think not.....
Good luck.....! ! ! ! !
2006-10-03 04:32:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If my girlfriend ever developed a disability, without a shadow of a doubt, I would stand by her side and hold her hand. I would not have sex outside of our relationship and if it meant not being able to have sex with her again, because I love her unconditionally, I would make that sacrifice. I've waited for this woman my entire life and through sickness and health, I'll be by her side.
2006-10-03 04:31:57 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It can be inherited, so they are born with it. IT can also be caused by something that happens to them, like brain trauma or a severe reaction to vaccinations or heavy metals in their environment over a long period of time. My son had seizures in reaction to his vaccines, and we feel that his learning disabilities and issues were at least related to those seizures. The tendency for the disability was there, and in time it might have developed to some degree on it's own, but the vaccines and subsequent seizures were a part of it. I feel that it was a combination of those and maybe other enviromental factors that caused his disability.
2016-03-27 03:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would stick by him. and no i wouldnt...thats why you have toys and hands :P
Its like saying "instead of him getting a disability he just couldnt get it up so would you cheat to feel better?" I mean if he cant then you shouldnt, its just not fair. Think if the roles were reversed. It would be sad.
Ive been with my boyfriend a year and a half, and i love him, no matter what. I cant imagine anyone else to make me happy like he does.
2006-10-03 04:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
THAT SEEMS TO BE THE PROBLEM WITH SOCIETY, YOU SEE WHEN UR IN LOVE (truely)THERE IS MORE TO IT THEN "SEX" THAT'S JUST AN ADDED BONUS!!!!
I WOULD'NT CARE IF MY SPOUSE HAD DEVELOPED A DISABILTY, I WOULD STILL BE THERE FOR HIM AND EVEN MORE PROBALLY IF AT ALL THAT IS POSSIBLE! I WOULD NOT NEED TO GO OUTSIDE THE MARRIAGE TRUST U ME IF U NEEDED IT THAT BAD THERE IS WAYS TO GO ABOUT IT!!
2006-10-03 04:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by JENN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex isn't a huge deal to me like that so I would stick by him. I know it's a big promise to make but nobody has made me feel like he does and he's all I want so I'd have to!
2006-10-03 04:30:22 · answer #6 · answered by claire 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably depends on how long we have been together. Sorry If I cannot go all tender. But that is my reality. If we are connected long enough. but sans that. I think reality would see us separating. But if we were together it might be a different issue since it would be like cutting yourself apart.
2006-10-03 04:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by brahman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have married for 20 years, and I will stick with my wife no matter what. If she were to ill to perform, Then I will just have to live with that. Love conquers all!!!!
2006-10-03 04:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think if you are married especially you should stand by your mate. There is more to life than sex, sex is just an added benefit.
2006-10-03 04:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by ladynamedjane 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance was hurt 4 years ago... I have stuck by him threw this... it has been a bit rocky... however he can still have sex.... not as often but often enough... I guess that one is not something I can answer.
2006-10-03 04:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋