i dont know what to do my gf is pregnant and she has nowhere to go
i live in a small studio with one twin bed and a sofa and my 2 dogs sleep there
i m soo confused cuz i dont know what to do
i stuck between so many things
please help
honesty i dont want her to move in
she will take up too much space and i dont want inconvence my pets with her there
and my dogs dont like her
2006-10-03 04:25:18 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell that ***** to get a bigger car. You can't let her crash on the sofa either. Sofas are for sitting, not sleeping. You can't just go around changing the use of an object. If you have that magical ability, you should have probably changed that WacArnolds she had the other night into the morning after pill.
2006-10-03 04:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by aztris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you definately need to prioritize things.
If you are calling her your girlfriend I will assume that you still want to be with her.
If you dont want to be with her, then tell her now, so she can move on.
Does she work? Does she have any ability to help pay rent?
If so, maybe she can help pay you rent.
I realize that you love your dogs, and they were there before her, but you need to decide if your going to put the dogs ahead of her.
I think that getting her pregnant was a mistake that you wish you could take back, and that your not ready for a relationship that serious. Has she talked about abortion or adoption? Maybe she should if she cant care for the child.
Good luck.
2006-10-03 04:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by creskin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, if your dogs don't like her then that's a warning.
Probably your dogs are telling you that she's not ready for a relationship with you.
Maybe you could bring her some bagels and tuna fish.
Has the oil in the car been changed regulary?
How's the coolant level? Make sure the care is being taken cared of. Her body is self-sustaining. But the car can't take care of itself. If she's gonna continue sleeping there, then she's gonna have to live up to the responsiblity of owning the car.
Having a car is a big deal.
I like Mustangs. They're cool. But I don't let chics sleep in it.
There's no room for them next to my iguana tank.
2006-10-03 05:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Sexual Chocolate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her then you would try to help and you wouldnt think of her as a burden but you also have to remember that she is carrying your child do you really want to put your baby through that? If you don't help her in the future there will be a day that you will need help and then you won't have anyone to help you remember this What goes around comes around the way that you feel about someone will think of you that way be careful and treat her right remember that your gonna be a DAD
2006-10-03 04:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by ballar23714 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the ***** didnt want to sleep in the car she shouldn't have pissed you off. And we can't have that Betty all up in your dogs space. I wrote that and didn't even remember the pregnant part. I see the problem. She's sleeping in the car and not driving away. Tell Prego you have real responsibilities like making sure your dogs can lick their genitals and you dont have time to waste on stupid babies.
2006-10-03 04:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by Shawn V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It didn't inconvience you when YOU got her pregnant..So what your saying is your dogs mean more to you than that child she is carrying (that is yours) does..your sorry..A MAN would take care of the problem that he had a HAND in..Like" here honey you can sleep in the bed I'll sleep on the couch..As for the dogs they can sleep on the floor." OBVIOUSLY YOU DON'T CARE NOTHING EXCEPT FOR YOURSELF AND YOUR 2 DOGS...She don't need someone like you anyhow...
2006-10-03 04:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding!?!?! Kick the dogs out, you sleep on the sofa and give her the bed. Better yet, buy her a king size! Next time wear a condom, jacka$$!!! Grow up!!
2006-10-03 04:32:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you shouldve kept your pants on if you cant take care of your baby thats on the way but if your dogs dont like her just buy her a heat lamp so the car wont be too cold in the winter or maybe an electric blanket
2006-10-03 04:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girlfriend is pregnant with your baby and you are more concerned about your pets? It doesn't sound like you care about your girlfriend or about the baby. If you did then you would give her the bed and sleep on the couch. Then she won't be inconveniencing your dogs, you will.
2006-10-03 04:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha right on, let her sleep and give birth in the car! dont ever let your self or your dogs get bothered by a pregnant gf =)
2006-10-03 04:29:56 · answer #10 · answered by CDM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋