Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

You all have great answers, I don't know how to respond to them on here. My sister-in-law thinks I should go to the ceremony to show my support for the wedding, but skip the reception. I already rsvp'd to it and it is this friday. My husband's aunt called to verify it and I agreed because I thought I could handle it. I don't think I can anymore after hearing that I was the one to blame for the last party. I would like to go to the reception to show that I am not the problem, but I honestly do not think that I can sit and enjoy myself with the expectation of something happening. But i also do not want her to think she got the best of me.

2006-10-03 04:04:51 · 13 answers · asked by Monica S 1 in Weddings

i have friends but not best friends. I want a BF by my birthday so that he can spoil me. I already spoil myself but its nothing like spending someone else money. its this dude at work gives me the eye but im scared to approach him (i feel like he should approach me). for one ive never dated anyone on the job or at anywhere that i have to see them all day everyday. i wouldnt mind talking to the dude that work with, hes cute! anyways i would like to know yall input. also, there are people that wanna be with me but i know that its not going to work and thats why i dont pursue it.

i am not shallow. i want a BF for more than spending his money, also his companionship. what is wrong with being pampered. NOT A D@MN THING! besides i have my own money! i am not desperate because if i was then i talk to the dudes that wanna talk to me but they are and will forver be boy toys unless they upgrade.
i cant talk to anyone that going in the opposite direction as me...thats like playing tug a war

2006-10-03 04:04:39 · 15 answers · asked by i ♥ my cat 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old muslim girl born and bred in the uk and a lesbian. Noone knows of my sexuality because if family knew i would get married off. However i met a women, through my mother because my mum knows her mother in law. She is about 32 and has five children. She got into an arranged marriage but she has been touching me up sexually. She started with my breasts and by stroking my hair.. she has kissed me down my neck and keeps calling me her sweetheart. I am so confused why she does this because she is married. She even said to me once your quite good with DIY can u set my dishwasher for me; she clarified and said come on your own not with your mum, come during the day and kept saying i wish i had someone like you. She says oh .... you have such a gorgeous face . This is making me mad because does she just want sex or does she want me personally. Please help i am so confused. I havent had any sexual relationships because waiting for the right girl.

2006-10-03 04:03:50 · 24 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend ask this.. and i need your help..

2006-10-03 04:03:25 · 11 answers · asked by Sam_Mitch 1 in Family

he have to give up for child support

2006-10-03 04:02:13 · 15 answers · asked by vzeuhg7d@verizon.net 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay me and and my new g/f have been dating for like 5 days..but everytime we have together..it's kinda boring..very shyish. (both of us) what can i do..like fun things....(not sexually..come on!) Likie how can I surprise her?

2006-10-03 04:01:46 · 10 answers · asked by Aaron I 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 04:01:04 · 14 answers · asked by toobdoob 1 in Singles & Dating

I noticed that some of you say that not getting enough sex would be a reason to cheat on her, but why cheat cant you be honest and say I am going to leave before hand so not to hurt the wife/girlfriend Isnt honesty what it is all about. and how much is not enough sex??? this gets me concerned!!!

2006-10-03 04:00:30 · 28 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been getting emails from websites- alot of different ones-singles, dating, asian women, etc.Are they really spam if there are alot of different mails he is getting.

2006-10-03 04:00:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for 15 years and live my life to please my husband........he gets upset if I make evening plans with my friends, even when I go walking by myself in the evening he does not like it, but yet he works very hard, alot of hours and is harldly home, but he expects me to be at home always waiting for him, he makes sure he takes the car so that I'm without a car. Is this love ?........it's having complete control..sometimes I feel just like running away from home, but I won't I love my kids way too much to do that.

2006-10-03 03:59:51 · 25 answers · asked by T 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed that some of you say that not getting enough sex would be a reason to cheat on her, but why cheat cant you be honest and say I am going to leave before hand so not to hurt the wife/girlfriend Isnt honesty what it is all about. and how much is not enough sex??? this gets me concerned!!!

2006-10-03 03:59:10 · 6 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 03:58:36 · 33 answers · asked by khalifa 1 in Singles & Dating

I noticed that some of you say that not getting enough sex would be a reason to cheat on her, but why cheat cant you be honest and say I am going to leave before hand so not to hurt the wife/girlfriend Isnt honesty what it is all about. and how much is not enough sex??? this gets me concerned!!!

2006-10-03 03:58:30 · 9 answers · asked by foxyraley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 03:58:22 · 16 answers · asked by angel 2 in Friends

It's her 3rd time being caught and placed in jail because of it. The first 2 x's she sat it out in jail. This recent third time she was bailed out on bond. Now she has to go to court AND she was suppose to go yesterday and forgot. What do you think is going to happen to her? Jail???

2006-10-03 03:58:16 · 17 answers · asked by Liz 2 in Friends

Will a guy end up calling you if you stop calling and texting him? They say things happen when you least expect it. So I am stressing about a certain guy. I have text him and left him a message and he will not reply to me. If I just stop will he call me eventually. If you can't say something nice about this than don't reply at all. Some people on this are so mean and don't care about anyones feelings at all. PUT YOUR SELF IN THE SITUATION AND SEE HOW IT FEELS!!!!!!! STOP BEING SO MEAN TO PEOPLE!!!!

2006-10-03 03:58:04 · 13 answers · asked by kjm 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 03:57:27 · 19 answers · asked by Andrei 5 in Friends

But I really like him alot and I also know that he likes me alot. What should I do?

2006-10-03 03:56:58 · 20 answers · asked by princess30 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 03:56:40 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 03:55:34 · 5 answers · asked by stock2004dc 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to locate my childrens father so I can have him served with court papers waiving him the rights to his children since he has a violent relationship with his pill popping girlfriend which caused him to loose his oldest son (from previuos relationship not my kid) to the state of Florida, he is an alcoholic, and he has warrants out for his arrest. He works but off the books so I cant even track him through employment. My fiance wants to marry me and adopt my children but I cant locate their dad because his p*ssy *** hides from the law. What can I do to track him or even his girlfriend (cause that will lead to him) so I can get him in court? I cant afford a private investigator so does anyone have a clue?

2006-10-03 03:54:30 · 4 answers · asked by Christina B 2 in Family

i was at one time and still am under a lot of stress. the problem is that i use to take the stress out on my wife and kids. now i have found other ways of dealing with my stress and have not resorted back to my old ways in over 10 months. my wife still does not know if she can believe me or doesn't even know(well says) if i really love her. i have tryed to prove to her i do and it is no use. she had a bad childhood to where she was treated like i was treating her and the kids so it is hard for her to forgive me. she has given me chances in the past but i did not realize i was doing what she said i was until about 10 months ago. i stopped when i realized and finally admitted i was doing those things. i was never abusive but i would yell alot for no reason at all. now she is doing everthing she can to hurt e. she spends alot of time with ex and says it for their daughter but lies about it. he walked out on them and did other stuff to her but she forgave him. why not give me a last chance

2006-10-03 03:53:44 · 16 answers · asked by john j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you do to keep children busy so you can relax?

2006-10-03 03:53:39 · 12 answers · asked by Smiles 4 in Family

I want a website to view that does not require credit cards or any other form of subscription. I want it to be totally free. Also, I want the videos to be longer than a few seconds. I would prefer several minutes. Does anyone have any suggestions?

2006-10-03 03:53:17 · 4 answers · asked by 414982collegeboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

U see i was assigned a case to this guy to be his personal accountant/ banker etc. he was such a jerk that he rejected me as his accountant and instead wanted another accountant .and worst he did not even tell me the reason why...because of this i nearly lost a promotion as my manager though i wasnt doing a gd job... this spread through the whole office. it pretty embrassing.. but then only recently he asked me out for lunch and told me that if he was my client , its unethical for him to date me.. what is he for real ?? now he want to date me .. is he just making fun or being serious! till now im sooo pisssed off at him! help what is he thinking exactly....

2006-10-03 03:53:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been engaged since march of 2005 and we have a daughter together. i haven't seen him in six months and he finally moved down here. we used to live together but when i had our daughter i had to move. now he lives with a friend of his 45 min away and his friend wants to take him to a strip club should i let him go? i dont think its right. and im starting to loose faith in him and trust him less...

2006-10-03 03:52:31 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 37 an been divorced a year. I had a bad ending with my X. I started talking to a 36 year old on messanger. However we already knew each other,we live in same town. His wife was killed in an car accident. Him, his wife,an 2 kids was hit by drunk driver.In april 2005. We talk alot an he thought he was ready to date. We meet an liked each other, however after we had sex he felt very guilty. An he said he was not ready. So we just keep talking. Now we meet an have sex, we both enjoy, but he is not ready still. One day he cares the next he dont. Then he tells me he is scared an he does care about me.This month the guy who hit them goes to court. He tells me he wants to get this part of this over before he gets into a serious relationship. But the court thing could last years. What should i expect from all this. I really care about him, but I have really been hurt before. He is a great guy. he had a very good marriage to his late wife. He is really one of a kind guy! HELP ME PLEASE!!

2006-10-03 03:52:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

james is sweet and like me for who i am.
giz is more the guy who likes to have fun and pull other girls but
we have our moments. i need help to deside who to go for pleaz help me

2006-10-03 03:52:08 · 14 answers · asked by victoria h 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 03:51:51 · 2 answers · asked by Peter I 2 in Family

2006-10-03 03:51:15 · 21 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating